He doesn't go down

LegacyUser

Hi,

Just wondering what to do in this situation. Been seeing a guy for 3-4 months now and its all going well. we get along great and the sex is great. The only thing is he has never gone down on me. I have gone down on him maybe 4 times now (without him asking) and he has never reciprocated the favour. Now don't get me wrong I'm not desperate for a bit of oral but at this stage is it not to be expected that he return the favour? Can I say anythin without coming across as weird? Or am I expecting too much?

Thanks in advance x

SheFiend

Take the initiative and next time 69 him. That way you both get what you want

LegacyUser

I'd talk to him, not wishing to sound crude but you've had this guys dick in your mouth [and other parts I'm assuming] so you should be able to talk to him about sex. Doesn't have to be some deep convo or anything just ask him what he likes and share what you'd like and work from there. Make it a mutual exploration exercise

It may be a case he's just never done it and doesn't really know how - we learn by doing alot of times when it comes to sex and not every girl likes oral so he may just never have done it. Or he's had a bad experience with someone where their personal hygiene wasn't up to scratch and that's put him off. I know I had a bad experience with a guy once and it took a little encouragement with my next BF to give it a try again.

Merkin

He's not psychic. Tell him it would turn you on so much if he was to go down on you. Or else next time you go to suck his ****, tell him you'd like him to lick you out at the same time. Men like women who can express what they like and what feels good sexually.

Piliger

HI OP. I think you really need to talk with him now, before you get more anxious. He hay have had a bad experience, or he may be very inexperienced. Talk to him about it, maybe about just kissing you down there first of all ... and move on in stages. I suggest talking to him in a more gentle language and in a more intimate way than the blunt suggestions in previous posts.

alacandra

this is one of my most favorite things to do. you need to make him horny for it. one of the nicest experiences in the world is to go down on a girl and taste her as she has mutible orgasams. you should aproach it this way telling him it is a fantasy of yours and he may respond - i know i would

ted1

Just tell him, or when your together gently push his head down. As a guy there's no better feeling then going down on a girl and watching her response, I could do it for hours and can't imagine any other guy who wouldn't enjoy it.

pastry2010

It's still a fairly new relationship though , I wouldn't get too upset over it but definetly take control i'm echoing one posters comment about '69' guys love that! Just do it, he won't say no!!!!Good Luck!:)