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Mixed feelings

  • 15-07-2012 10:21am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I feel frozen inside & can't really think straight over a trivial matter. Someone who I consider a friend slapped me on the behind. He knows I've been hurt by someone in my past who couldn't commit & when I told this person I had a crush on them ages ago they were very understanding. Although he likes to flirt I was under the impression that he didn't want anything which hurt my ego at the time but to be honest I could and can see that its better if nothing happens. Then this happens & I'm confused and feel sick, I don't know why. Any ideas on how to stop over analysing it and to move on and forget it happened. I don't like feeling this way.


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  • #2
    edellc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭edellc


    Only you have the power to stop over analysing this and move on, its a slap on the arse, from a friend, which was probably done in a messing manner and on a night out.

    It meant nothing, yes he shouldn't have done it but its done and cant be taken back. As for being hurt in the past, we that's life we all get hurt when you put your heart on the line, but if you dont do that then you never find love so its a catch 22 situation, try not be so sensitive or if it really offends you (the slap on the arse) that is then next time he does it grab his balls and ask him how he feels being sexually assaulted :D joking

    If you do feel that uncomfortable about it then next time you see this friend tell them that you dont like being treated like a piece of meat even if it was done in an affectionate way.


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