Think she's fed up ?

cc94

my girlfirend and i have been going out for just over a year now, but i think she's fed up with me . a couple of weeks ago she went away for 2 weeks and we had very little contact , ever since she came back it hasnt been the same , especially in the last week i have been texting her and she shows no sign of interest at all and barely asks me questions . a few days ago she also said that t "she doesn't deserve me " in my opinion this is just a way to ease the break up ? . I am young and i know there'll be plenty others out there but i really like this girl it will break my heart to see her go . whats all ye'r opinion ?

Sephiroth_dude

Tell her ye need to have a chat and express your concerns to her and just ask her to be truthful with you no matter what is it,it's best to know the truth if something did happen while she was away,not saying anything happened or anything.

Herrick

I'll be honest. With her being so cold towards you and most importantly the "I don't deserve you" It definitely sounds like she cheated on you in some shape or form while on holiday

dannyc31

agreed. sorry mate but this girl seems done with you but is just looking for the cowards way out i.e. trying to make you dump her.

she may or may not of cheated on you while away but i suspect she was open to other men approaching and may even of exchanged numbers with one of them. this may also of been going on for some time but is just coming to a head now for her.

only one way to be sure thou, sit her down and ask her straight does she want to end things or is there a problem with just something in particular in the relationship, but dont do it in a text as she may just try to avoid you. act like nothing is wrong and then the next time you see her, confront her properly and forcefully, dont pussy foot around the issue. i'd say expect the worst thou

a fat guy

I hate to echo everyone else, but that does sound like the behavior of someone who's cheated on you, but regrets it.

If she has cheated on you, then you can't/shouldn't salvage the relationship. If she has, then she could do it again and a relationship like that, no matter how sorry she may be, is not good for you OP.

Sit down with her and press her for what happened.

Piliger

Hi OP.

Whatever you do, don't do anything until you've spoken. Relationships are about communicating ! Goodness knows what might be going on and you won't find out until you talk. She could be going through some personal issues that might be nothing to do with you ... all kinds of possibilities.
Talk before you act.

Best of luck.

Pa Dee

cc94 wrote: »

my girlfirend and i have been going out for just over a year now, but i think she's fed up with me . a couple of weeks ago she went away for 2 weeks and we had very little contact , ever since she came back it hasnt been the same , especially in the last week i have been texting her and she shows no sign of interest at all and barely asks me questions . a few days ago she also said that t "she doesn't deserve me " in my opinion this is just a way to ease the break up ? . I am young and i know there'll be plenty others out there but i really like this girl it will break my heart to see her go . whats all ye'r opinion ?

Did you consider if something occurred with someone else during the two weeks?

soul_jd

I'm sorry to say it buddy, but I agree with the rest of the above, and as much a kick in the stones as it is to do, but your going to have to come the idea if something like that did happen, your just gonna have to face her buddy and ask her straight out if something like that happened, look i honestly hope that it didnt because it happened to me a few years back.. and i wont lie... it hurts, but be strong buddy and chat to her. I hope all works out, I do.