Meet Ups?

LegacyUser

Hey everyone,

I'm going unreg for this one primarily because many people I know are unaware of my sexuality and are fully aware of my real ID here.

So here goes - I'm sort of tired of meeting guys on GayDar, GrindR and so forth...the vast majority just seem to want sex. I mean, I've even been in situations where I've tried to speak to guys who write on their profile 'looking for friends, not into NSA', and yet block me immediately after saying hi. I can only assume that they still make judgements based on looks and not on actually wanting to make friends. It's a disgrace in my opinion.

So, to break that trend, I was wondering what guys on here would feel the same and would like to meet up sometime for a drink. I'm not really into collective meetings yet but would like to meet a few, if they find themselves in a similar situation. So would anyone like to meet early next week in Dublin for a few pints and a chat? I'd be happy to PM guys here who might like to. By the way, 23 here.

1ZRed

meetingup?? wrote: »

Hey everyone,

I'm going unreg for this one primarily because many people I know are unaware of my sexuality and are fully aware of my real ID here.

So here goes - I'm sort of tired of meeting guys on GayDar, GrindR and so forth...the vast majority just seem to want sex. I mean, I've even been in situations where I've tried to speak to guys who write on their profile 'looking for friends, not into NSA', and yet block me immediately after saying hi. I can only assume that they still make judgements based on looks and not on actually wanting to make friends. It's a disgrace in my opinion.

So, to break that trend, I was wondering what guys on here would feel the same and would like to meet up sometime for a drink. I'm not really into collective meetings yet but would like to meet a few, if they find themselves in a similar situation. So would anyone like to meet early next week in Dublin for a few pints and a chat? I'd be happy to PM guys here who might like to. By the way, 23 here.

I think the mods don't like people asking this if I'm right.

Tbh, apps+gay guys=sex 97% of the time. It's not our fault that's just what a lot of use want.
If you want to meet a guy for a drink and to start dating him, there's only one place you can realistically do that. Real life.
It doesn't necessarily have to be in a pub or club, it could be from the gym or training or what ever else.

You're kind of running into the same territory again if you want to have meet ups here. But best of look man.

Btw, how are guys supposed to PM you if you're a guest? Didn't think you could.

DazMarz

Think the OP wants guys to post here expressing their interest in meeting up with him, and he'll PM them from his 'real' account.

And what the hell... I'm 23, from near Dublin and don't mind if the OP wants to PM me.

Mods, I don't know what the story is here so delete this post if it's not appropriate, thanks.