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  • 21-06-2012 12:16am
    #1
    Mr Will
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 ✭


    Sorry if this in the wrong forum!
    I really like wearing female clothing! It's not that I get a sexual buzz off it, but I feel more natural in them (as well its better than men's fashion) !!! I have 5 friends that know this!!! My problem is I'm straight and every time I meet a girl I'm interested in, I just can't explain my "Issue"!
    My friends are very understanding "thankfully"!!! BUT it took a lot of dutch courage to show them the real me!!!
    If I had my way we should wear what we want! women wear trousers so why not men skirts (Scots do it)!!! But socially its not accepted for men to do so...

    I'd like some honest feed back from all....


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  • #2
    xsiborg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,635 ✭✭✭xsiborg


    well you can explain it to them, but there isn't a whole lot you can do if they choose not to accept this part of who you are as a person. it really just comes down to finding a girl who doesn't mind that you cross-dress i suppose.

    think of it this way, if you were attracted to a girl, but the one thing that niggled you was the fact that she was... i dunno, a heavy drinker we'll say, and you didnt like the fact that she's out at the weekends, etc, im just using an example.

    she could then say the very same thing- how does she explain that she just likes to go out and let her hair down, etc, effectively being dismissive of the issue and giving out because "you dont understand", if you get me?

    for some girls the fact that their bf likes to wear women's clothes IS an issue. nobody is saying you cant wear what you want, but by that same token, you then have to be just as accepting of the fact that some girls are not comfortable with the idea- they like their men to wear trousers, not skirts!

    scots wear kilts btw, not skirts, totally different! ;)


  • #3
    ShanePouch
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 83 ✭✭ShanePouch


    Mr Will wrote: »
    Sorry if this in the wrong forum!
    I really like wearing female clothing! It's not that I get a sexual buzz off it, but I feel more natural in them (as well its better than men's fashion) !!! I have 5 friends that know this!!! My problem is I'm straight and every time I meet a girl I'm interested in, I just can't explain my "Issue"!
    My friends are very understanding "thankfully"!!! BUT it took a lot of dutch courage to show them the real me!!!
    If I had my way we should wear what we want! women wear trousers so why not men skirts (Scots do it)!!! But socially its not accepted for men to do so...

    I'd like some honest feed back from all....

    Grayson Perry seems to have managed to combine a successful family life with very public wearing of women's clothing. Here in London no one bats an eye at him, or many like him, who choose to wear dresses and other clothing more usually associated with women. Or women who wear more masculine clothing either.

    If you are looking for casual sex, then your penchant for wearing womens clothing isn't relevant.

    If you are looking for a life partner, then you are only looking for one person and will have to find one who is not put off by that. Some might be, but plenty of girls won't be.

    I have heard it said that a person who knows what he wants usually finds it, and that a person who doesn't know what he wants usually finds that too...:D I have often thought that quite wise for us all, and it's been my experience that those who know what they are looking for invariably find it.


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