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  • 13-06-2012 1:34pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi i just wondering about what you think about this suitation.
    I broke up with my ex last year and we still friends and talk, recently she started passing hints about going away for a few days and wants to bring her kids with her (they aint mine).
    Why would she think i should go off on a hoilday with her and her kids ?


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    iaminabitofamess wrote: »
    Why would she think i should go off on a hoilday with her and her kids ?

    Did you ask her?
    If not, do so, she's the only one who can give the right answer.


  • #3
    P. Breathnach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,089 ✭✭✭✭P. Breathnach


    I tend to start with the simplest view, and see if that stands up to scrutiny.

    A woman going on holidays with young children would probably like to have a friend along who gets on well with her and the children. She may see you as such a friend.


  • #4
    Daisy M
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,559 ✭✭✭Daisy M


    Even it was a case that she just wanted a friend along, I think it would be a bad idea to go. It could be confusing for the children and I think lines could become blurred.


  • #5
    OakeyDokey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,605 ✭✭✭OakeyDokey


    The best thing you can do is ask her about it. Explain to her your feelings on the situation and the effect it could have on the children.


  • #6
    fungun
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,120 ✭✭✭fungun


    Honestly dont know how you can expect accurate advice with such little detail in post. I mean depending on how and why you split up, could she be reconsidering/hoping to get back. Maybe, but impossible for us to give our thoughts without any information


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  • #7
    Neyite
    Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    When we go on holidays, a big part of it being a holiday is having a wander in the evenings along the seafront, picking a place to have dinner, and just relaxing, enjoying the food and a few drinks and the atmosphere, and enjoying talking to each other. For my partner and I its romantic, but I've been on holidays with friends and family and do the same, and its just relaxing with adult company.

    If the kids are in bed, there's a long evening ahead with no-one to talk to. It may not necessarily be romantic, just company on holidays. But only she can tell you if that is the case or not.


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