sex help

nowayout1

hey guys have been curious over this, me and my girlfriend have been sexually active over the last 6 months and when she gives me head i just cant ejaculate and it annoys me but with sex n handjobs i can. secondly when we do everything i find it sore and not a sexual sensation as i'm uncircumcised is this normal? should be doing something else to help it not be sore each time we do it?

Dravokivich

Sore how? I don't mean rating the pain, but what does it feel like?

Panthro

Moved from TGC, might have more success in here
Panthro

Oryx

Moving this again to PI, as S&S is a private forum which the op may not have access to. I hope this is ok mods.

LegacyUser

When you say sore do you mean it feels tight? How easy or not easy is it for to roll the foreskin back from the head of your penis? Some men have very tight foreskin which can be treated a number of ways from simple stretching exercises or if that doesn't help then a surgeon can make small incision or a full circumcision. Best to speak with your GP to get the stretching exercises as while they are simple if done wrong you can do more damage then good. See how that goes and work from there.

nowayout1

its grand with the foreskin going back but its more the head thats too sensitive grand at the start but ends up being sore by the end of it, i end up stopping so kinda ruins the moment

Oryx

Do you wear condoms?

nowayout1

yeh i'd wear condoms during sex as shes not on the pill yet

Ickle Magoo

Have you tried a variety of different condoms? Some men can have minor allergies or find the lubricant on some condoms irritate them...I'd also schedule yourself for a check at the docs just to make sure there are no medical issues afoot.

nowayout1

fetherlight condoms would be the lightest i've used, unless there are lighter ones on the market.

Ickle Magoo

Maybe try polyurethane or hypo-allergenic condoms? See if getting condoms that don't use nonoxynol-9 or 11 spermicide which are the most common to give irritation helps. It could also be a lubricant issue - too little can cause friction and that can cause irritation...of course, it'll need to be a water-based lube with condoms. :cool:

baby and crumble

Some people don't come from certain activities, so not coming from oral sex isn't that big a deal I would have thought.

You should definitely try latex free condoms, a surprising number of people are allergic to latex.

Does the soreness happen when you're on your own? Or only during sex? Because you might be allergic to something your gf is using on her skin or something. YOu should go to a doc and check it all out though.

Woodward

how hard/rough is she tugging? Can you ejaculate when you masturbate?