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Should I make contact

  • 06-06-2012 5:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was out in a nightclub on Monday night and myself and a few mates got chatting to a few girls and one thing led to another and we kissed nothing else though anyway we stayed together for the whole night. She is from Northern Ireland and i'm from down South. She lives about 1hr away from me anyway when I got home I added her on Facebook and got talking to her on chat last night. We basically talked about the night before but didn't really acknowledge kissing each other ( didn't think it was relevant tbh ) anyway I asked her would she mind heading back up to the nightclub and she said its a offer she can't refuse. Now I don't know whether shes seeing somebody or in a relationship nothing on her FB about that.

    Thing is i'm really fond of her shes pretty and we got on well she was good crack and we really got on. Thing is I don't know what to do now ? Do I just leave it as a drunken night out or try and make more contact. I wouldn't know what to say to her on Fb like I don't want to come on too strong and annoy her like.

    Don't know if it makes much difference but i'm 20 and shes 18.


Comments

  • #2
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    But you have already asked her out? :confused:


  • #3
    OakeyDokey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,605 ✭✭✭OakeyDokey


    Why don't you just stay chatting for a while and get to know her, if you still like then ask her out to dinner or drinks and see how things go from their.


  • #4
    SunnyDub1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,439 ✭✭✭SunnyDub1


    Did you not already ask her back to the night club?

    There is some attraction there if she kissed you and stayed with you for the night!

    If she wasn't any way intreasted she would have prob ignored the friend request or not responded to you on chat.

    If you mail her and ask for her number and she gives it you, you will have a fair idea weather she is intreasted in seeing you again or not!

    If she gives you her number then bite the bullet and ask her out! Or else just mail her and ask her out straight if she would like to see you again!


    The worse she can say is no. You have nothing to lose.


  • #5
    scholar007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 902 ✭✭✭scholar007


    contactconfused wrote: »
    I was out in a nightclub on Monday night and myself and a few mates got chatting to a few girls and one thing led to another and we kissed nothing else though anyway we stayed together for the whole night. She is from Northern Ireland and i'm from down South. She lives about 1hr away from me anyway when I got home I added her on Facebook and got talking to her on chat last night. We basically talked about the night before but didn't really acknowledge kissing each other ( didn't think it was relevant tbh ) anyway I asked her would she mind heading back up to the nightclub and she said its a offer she can't refuse. Now I don't know whether shes seeing somebody or in a relationship nothing on her FB about that.

    Thing is i'm really fond of her shes pretty and we got on well she was good crack and we really got on. Thing is I don't know what to do now ? Do I just leave it as a drunken night out or try and make more contact. I wouldn't know what to say to her on Fb like I don't want to come on too strong and annoy her like.

    Don't know if it makes much difference but i'm 20 and shes 18.

    Does anyone ever pick up the phone anymore?


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