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Girl confusion stuff

  • 04-06-2012 11:37pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey all!

    First of all, thanks in advance for oyur wonderful advice ;)

    Now that I've got the sucking up out of the way, my 'issue', although I use the term loosely.
    Had a girl who I've a bit of history with stay over for the weekend. When I say a bit of history I mean we were getting together but she decided just to be friends before it got serious.

    Anyway, we're sitting there chatting, generally having a good time, and the conversation started going towards our exes. Then towards comparing how we act with each other to how we did with our exes. She said she liked where the conversation was going. So that goes on for another while, then we end up watching a movie sitting on my bed. She refuses to share the pillow saying 'if you gave me something else to use I'd give you it', so I tell her she can use me. Which she does, then we end up getting into bed to watch the end of the movie and eventually falling asleep. In the morning she complained that I had been close to her in my sleep but then just smiled and said she didn't mind really.

    Now I know the obvious thing to have done would have been to just ask her straight up how things stood, but I was enjoying the time and didn't want to make things weird. When she was leaving I told her I really enjoyed myself, she smiled, hugged me and said she did too. Made some hints that she's like to see me again soon. So I suppose my main question is, is there a fair chance she's changed her mind about me? Or is she more likely just comfortable enough with me to treat me like that as a friend now?

    Yes, I am clueless, before anyone points it out ;)


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,663 ✭✭✭Cork24


    All I can say.... Time will tell,

    But I wouldn't get my hopes up some girls like to lead people on. If I was you I wouldn't get it into my head that maybe we have a chance I would keep it to friends for your own peace of mind.

    Keep ongoing the way you are now and slowly if she keeps doing what she's doing then pop the question,


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,305 ✭✭✭Joshua J


    As the king would advise, "A little less conversation a little more action please". You shoulda been all over that like a wet suit. Whatever happened you'd not be confused today. Carpe diem my friend. Carpe diem.


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