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  • 14-05-2012 9:07am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am feeling very down and trying to work out why. I feel like i constantly put expectations on people and feel like I am constantly let down. I am a good hearted person and feel exceptionally disheartened when other people are not the same. At the moment, I also feel ultra sensitive and feel like I dont fit into where others my age are right now. I eat well and I excercise. Up until recently, I was on an injection which stopped my periods and also appeared to have numbed my emotions and now I am feeling very teary. I am working a job which involves night work which is not helping at the moment as I feel constantly exhausted. I feel also disillusioned with humanity (bizarre) and I am mistrustfull of people. I work with people with many issues, have my own house, have great family and friends(all of whom i dont want to be around), I am single(suffered my fair share of disasters dates, relationships etc) I am annoyed with men(whom i generally get on well with), I have a wonderfull child(at that age where he wants more independance), most of my friends are in relationships. Overall, I get on great with people. I would be seen as a nice person maybe a bit impulsive/wild on occassion. I drink in company(a couple of times a month/usually too much). I wont touch drugs. I had a bad work experience last year where i left the job however still provide/provided support to a lot of people. I have been in counselling before. Have no issues talking about how i feel. Anyone any similiar experiences? (before I take myself back to counselling/doctor)


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  • #2
    Nulty
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,838 ✭✭✭Nulty


    Hey, I can't say I feel the same as you or know what you're going through but I think you deserve a response so I'll give you my best shot.

    Do you think it might have something to do with a goal in life or something you haven't been doing? It sounds like there is something deep down that is niggling at you like your missing out on something. Is there unresolved issues like promises you made yourself? I'm just guessing here.

    Good luck


  • #3
    darkangel1986
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 ✭darkangel1986


    i will only give advice bout the bit where you said you feel people let you down-let them know they have let you down!! i know you feel it will only start a fight but if you put it in a nice way and explain where you are coming from they will understand. i have said it to my friends if they ever let me down, and i have yet to lose any of them :)


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