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My ex is pregnant by her new boyfriend, Am very upset..

  • 03-05-2012 12:30pm
    #1
    camroc76
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 130 ✭✭camroc76


    Hi all and thanks for reading.

    I had a very bad break up with my ex girlfriend over 8 months ago and we only very recently managed to have a civil conversation between us since. In the conversation she joked that she was going to have to upgrade her wardrobe as she had some good news, I didnt know what she was talking about so i asked her about it and she said that she was pregnant by her new boyfriend.
    Not wanting to sound melodramatic, but I very nearly got sick when I heard her news, we had discussed kids and before the break up I had always thought she would be the mother of mine. I am finding this very hard to deal with so much so that I have not discussed her pregnancey with her even when we are in contact now and then.

    Any advice on how to deal with this, I want to be ok with this and be happy for her but right now I am devastated...

    Cam.


Comments

  • #2
    Ari Greasy Sweeper
    Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Ari Greasy Sweeper


    Cutting all contact is good advice in any breakup situation, and it seems to be even better advice now.
    You're not obligated to be friends with her especially when it's giving you so much hurt. Wish her the best and then drop contact


  • #3
    Defiler Of The Coffin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,117 ✭✭✭Defiler Of The Coffin


    camroc76 wrote: »
    I want to be ok with this and be happy for her but right now I am devastated...

    It's perfectly OK for you not to be happy about this. Go easy on yourself, you're only human. You're still not over the breakup but look on the bright side, at least this might be the impetus you need to cut ties and move forward with your life. Best to forget about her and direct the energy into the gym or a new hobby. Best of luck.


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