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He's just not that into you

  • 22-04-2012 1:13pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,
    It would be great to get peoples point of view on this.

    I was out in the city last night and got talking to a guy. He kept looking over at me so naturally I thought he was interested. I was with my friends and we were all standing around chatting and then I ended up talking to him for a bit. We dicussed general things like where you live, age, work as etc. It was all very casual. At one stage another guy came up to us and assumed we were together and told my guy hes a lucky man. etc. The usual funny drunk comments. It was funny.

    Everything was going fine we continued in and out chatting to each other and back to our friends. I put my coat on to go as the bar was closing up and I was standing beside him and he said I better head lovely to meet you etc and that was it he was gone.

    I just assumed then he had a girlfriend and was just chatting. There was innocent flirting too so its very confusing.

    I cant figure guys in Dublin out maybe I did something incorrect without being aware or is it plain and simple He's just not that into you.
    tks :)


Comments

  • #2
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    Did you give him any signs that you were interested in him?


  • #3
    saa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭saa


    If you're from Dublin maybe Ireland I can honestly say Irish people are not into dating in that manner in my experience you're either with someone or not. If I hear about someone getting with someone in a club and dating them they usually have mutual friends and do not swap numbers when they first chat, I've seen many friends chat to guys in pubs and they seem to either want a one night stand or are just having the banter and go on with their night it is not a negative reflection on the woman. I wouldn't take it personally if you see him there a few times and keep talking to him it might lead to hey il get your number but sadly it can turn into the drinking buddy situation, don't fret, keep on trucking the right guy comes along out of the blue.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for the positive comments. Its nice to hear other peoples views on these things. Maybe I wasnt forth coming enough. Its all new to me. I suppose its hard to meet guys out in pubs. I was just a little confused as I thought we had fun and got on. I'll put it down to an experience. As the saying goes plenty more fish in the sea tks :)


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