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  • 19-04-2012 4:36pm
    #1
    lorrha14
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭


    right ill try be quick.. met a girl a year ago.. she was with someone so was i... in the middle of it i was with a girl i work with who was engaged.. the other girl found out.. there was a bit of **** between us but we got

    she never trusted me in work since that but ive changed units, missed nights out, turned down a transfer left all my facebook etc open to show her.. cut all contact with the other girl..

    however i dont change units till next week and shes caught me out a few times lying about stupid little things like weather or not i was in the car with the other girl..

    came to a head yesterday she said im a compulsive liar and she cant trust me.. even though i have given her everything and i genuinely wouldnt look at a girl i love her so much but its like shes too paranoid and cant see that in a week ill never work with this girl again.. ive made such an effort..

    im also a paranooid compulsive texter so ive left my phone in work to stop me texting her.. any ideas on winning her around or proving to her or should i just let her off and see.. my friends at work reckon ive done all i can and if she cant see the effort im better off just getting rid of her


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    lorrha14 wrote: »
    right ill try be quick.. met a girl a year ago.. she was with someone so was i... in the middle of it i was with a girl i work with who was engaged.. the other girl found out.. there was a bit of **** between us but we got

    Your post is practically incomprehensible. Going by the above, I am reading into it that you were with Girl One, you met Girl Two while involved with Girl One and then cheated on Girl Two (and potentially Girl One) with Girl Three who was engaged to be married to someone else. Is this the case?


  • #3
    lorrha14
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭lorrha14


    sorry my girlfriend was girl 1...
    i met girl 2 who had a boyfriend
    met girl 3 whi was engaged and i worked with..

    fell head over heels for girl 2 we dumped our other halves and got together

    i slept with girl 3 nearly a year ago.. my girl now never forgave me and ive done everything she has asked but its not enough...

    ive practically ruined my carrear by turning down transfers etc to be with her and im finally changing units and wouldnt see girl 3 again.. but my girl reckons i still lie about her and cant seem to accept the effort ive put into us


  • #4
    indough
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,857 ✭✭✭indough


    you cant expect her to forgive you just because youve been putting effort into proving yourself. you cheated on her, its not like you just forgot to do the dishes or something.


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    lorrha14 wrote: »
    sorry my girlfriend was girl 1...
    i met girl 2 who had a boyfriend
    met girl 3 whi was engaged and i worked with..

    fell head over heels for girl 2 we dumped our other halves and got together

    i slept with girl 3 nearly a year ago.. my girl now never forgave me and ive done everything she has asked but its not enough...

    ive practically ruined my carrear by turning down transfers etc to be with her and im finally changing units and wouldnt see girl 3 again.. but my girl reckons i still lie about her and cant seem to accept the effort ive put into us

    Well with your history of cheating do you think being seen as trustworthy is warranted? If I were you I'd forget about this girl and maybe work on yourself and the reasons why one woman at a time isn't enough for you.


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