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lad who stares and then ignores

  • 02-04-2012 10:02pm
    #1
    tyw3724e
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 ✭


    I met this lad at a party and we got on great, he was in my school but two years above me,we kissed it was great but then the next day he just completely ignored me, but stares at me so obviously from a distance. He ignored until we met at another party and we kissed again, but the same scenario continued.We shifted again at another party and again he completely ignores me and just stares at me from a distance again.

    Does this guy like me at all or am I just being foolish


Comments

  • #2
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    op, I really am not sure why you posted this in archaeology.

    moved to PI


  • #3
    ButterflyABC
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 63 ✭✭ButterflyABC


    tyw3724e wrote: »
    I met this lad at a party and we got on great, he was in my school but two years above me,we kissed it was great but then the next day he just completely ignored me, but stares at me so obviously from a distance. He ignored until we met at another party and we kissed again, but the same scenario continued.We shifted again at another party and again he completely ignores me and just stares at me from a distance again.

    Does this guy like me at all or am I just being foolish

    Hi Op,

    I think that he likes you and is shy. The reason I think this is that I do the same thing, I have a guy I'm mad about and I kiss him and then I ignore him! It drives me nuts that I do this as I can see how it may come across as ignorance. Next time you're with him ask him! He probably has Dutch courage when out and shy then in the light of day.

    I could be wrong and before anyone says it I know it's immature to ignore someone!


  • #4
    going un-reg
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 98 ✭✭going un-reg


    So this has happened three times and you've not brought it up with him?

    There's nothing wrong with talking to him about it, I'm sure he'd be very relieved that you're bringing it up because he might be too shy to bring it up himself.

    :)


  • #5
    danslevent
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 893 ✭✭✭danslevent


    In secondary school sometimes guys get teased for going with girls that are in younger years..maybe that's it??


  • #6
    lynsalot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 407 ✭✭lynsalot


    He fancies you... he's just painfully shy!!!!!!! Definitely talk to him nice and light hearted and then brace the subject. Become smiley and chatty with each other to break that ice.

    It might sound ridiculous but theres a guy in my job who literally stared at me when I passed, when he passed, if I came to speak to his colleague, if I literally farted in his direction and then he was at the door one day and normally guys in the workplace would hold the door for the girl but he let it slam in my face lol so I was like right then... it was all very awkward. I had a query for him a few weeks ago and he was dog ignorant but still he stares and now he's started trying to speak to me at lunch time bringing up something we have in common.

    Men are strange... scratch my advice and become a lesbian!!!


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