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Getting over someone

  • 27-03-2012 4:36pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Well was hoping I’d never be in this situation but recently had a split and my girlfriend won’t forgive me for believing someone over her. I won’t get into it but it’s a bit petty why she’s finishing with me but it’s a hard one to take, I’m absolutely miserable in my work and just wanted to ask for general advice on how best to deal with it.

    Thanks.


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  • #2
    mp3ireland2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭mp3ireland2


    whatcanyoudotomendabrokenheart wrote: »
    Well was hoping I’d never be in this situation but recently had a split and my girlfriend won’t forgive me for believing someone over her. I won’t get into it but it’s a bit petty why she’s finishing with me but it’s a hard one to take, I’m absolutely miserable in my work and just wanted to ask for general advice on how best to deal with it.

    Thanks.

    Not much advice anyone can give you to help really, not much use but it just takes time....a long time for me but maybe less for you hopefully! I know what u mean hard to motivate yourself at work as nothing seems to matter etc. I remember how ****ty it is but can't offer u much advice other than to keep busy in the evenings and talk to ur friends about it, don't be afraid to.....

    Just after a mini "break up" myslef there this evening (I use the term loosely as it was only a month long, it's still fairly frustrating!) had a post up above not in my name though, prob a bit pointless now!

    I just rang my friends this evening, got their opinions and advice.. some of it i'll take some i won't but it's good to talk and express ur feelings!

    It's something we all have to learn to deal with unfortunately.... hopefully u don't regret your relationship though and can think of good times u had and that you've learned things!


  • #3
    ihsb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 678 ✭✭✭ihsb


    I have been in your girlfriend's shoes. I forgave but it has been a really hard journey. I cannot blame her for finishing it. The trust has gone for her.

    The thing is you just have to give her space. She might take you back, she might not. Time really does heal though. Just try not to make the same mistake again!


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