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made big mistake, how to take it back?

  • 07-03-2012 10:36am
    #1
    beccy1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    hi, first time poster. i stumbled on this site a few years ago when i was in college & thought it was very helpful. i really need some good advice at the minute.

    about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years. we had our problems but nothing too major. we both wanted basically the same things in life and we had the same taste in evrything. we got on really well when we were together but we would at times have some blazing arguments, usually about small stuff. looking back i suppose that just shows we cared, if we didnt then it wouldnt bother us.

    the problem is i finished things with him. i just wanted time apart, needed to be away from it all and find out what i wanted. i know i broke his heart in doing so. i also ended up sleeping with someone about a week later and i foolishly told him in an effort to let him move on. i dont know why i slept with that person, i also continued to meet him for about a week until i realised he wasnt what i wanted.

    the thing is, now i want my ex back in my life. its not that im lonely, ive seen whats out there and i know in my heart that hes the one. is there any way he could forgive me? i keep asking myself why i treated him so badly and im really down about my behaviour. i dont know why i let it go so far. should i just let him go and let him get on with his life? he didnt deserve that treatment or is there any way that i can make it up to him?


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  • #2
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,910 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    Talk to him. Let him decide if you are what he wants.

    Be honest with him about what you said here. You were together 3 years so having an honest heart to heart should be doable.

    Unless you lay your cards on the table for him, you'll never know. If he decides he doesn't want to be with you, then you have to accept that. But you shouldn't accept it without doing anything about it first.


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    OP

    We are closing this thread, if you want to discuss please contact me or one of the other Mods.


    Please don't use a re-reg to post the same topic from a different viewpoint, you already have a thread open on this breakup.

    Thanks
    Taltos


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