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What are my chances??

LegacyUser · 2012-03-04 16:05:50

Hey everybody Basically as the title suggests I would like to know what my chances are in the circumstances I will set out below. So a hot female "friend" (I put it this way because we only ever exchange conversation via whatsapp and have never actually seen each other in person since June 2010 despite my numerous attempts…

04-03-2012 4:05pm

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Hey everybody

Basically as the title suggests I would like to know what my chances are in the circumstances I will set out below.

So a hot female "friend" (I put it this way because we only ever exchange conversation via whatsapp and have never actually seen each other in person since June 2010 despite my numerous attempts to arrange something which always seem to be when she is busy) has asked me to go to a festival with her which would require me to travel down to London which is a fair distance away from me and is insisting that I stay at her friends house (who I have never met). I will try and arrange a hotel but worst comes to worst I stay at her friends.

Am I being an idiot to think that there could be something here and that I have reasonable shot??

Before that question is answered it is important to the facts to state that I did confide in her about another girl who I fell for primarily due to having a very close co-dependant relationship with that girl, who is actually a lesbian but I get the impression there is something between us but that is another issue altogether. During this time festival girl made a point of stating that I "think of her as one of the lads" and that wasn't a good thing.

Also I think it is important to highlight that festival girl is very distrustful of guys in general due to past experiences and feels that all guys are the same, which I don't mind because I will look better when I prove to her that I'm not like other guys.

I like festival girl in as both a friend and as something more, if there is nothing there then brilliant I have an amazing friend in my life, however I would really like it to be something more because she is an amazing person.

Thoughts, Opinions, Analysis and Criticism welcome

Thanks

Romantic Idiot

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