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Unexplainable strong connection??

  • 27-02-2012 4:57am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I'm just wondering if anyone has had an experience like this. I'm in my current job for the last 5 years. It's a large operation so you mightn't see certain colleagues from one month to the next. When I started first, I spent a week working with one lad in particular and from the first moment of meeting him, I felt this instant extremely strong connection. It's hard to explain because it's never happene me before with anyone else, if anything, I'm usually very detached and cool when it comes to matters of the heart. So this really freaked me out. It's so weird because we have never even really talked that much, usually I get tongue tied around him and we end up just standing around together. So anyways, at the time I was in a relationship at the time so couldn't act on my feelings.

    I saw him and worked a small bit with him over the last few years and every time I do, these feelings come back and hit me like a ton of bricks. I suspect he feels something for me because he finds reasons to hang around me and I often catch him staring at me. In the periods that I'm not around him, I don't think of him at all but when he's anywhere near me, I'm reduced to this dumbstruck wreck.

    At the moment, I'm in a very happy stable relationship an we have absolutely no problems. However, a few weeks back, I was transferred back to work with this man and I'm blown away by these feelings again. I feel guilty for being like this because I absolutely love my partner. But here is this other man in my head and I can think of little else.

    WTF is this feeling and WHY am I feeling it??? Has this ever happened to any of ye and how did ye get over it? Staying away from this person is not an option. I feel like pulling him aside and telling him all but I know that this would only go down a very bad road. HELP!!


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Pagal wrote: »
    WTF is this feeling and WHY am I feeling it???

    It's called a crush. I wouldn't worry too much about it, harmless enough unless you decide you are compelled to act on it. If that's the case then break up with your boyfriend but otherwise I'd just ride the wave as it were.


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