Unsure where it stands...

Glowla

Hi,

I would appreciate advice on an issue that I'm realy torn about please!
So the long story cut short is....a few years ago I was seeing a guy and everything was going perfectly until he had to move to Oz due to work for a few months but I couldn't go because of college. He was unsure how long he would be there for so we called it a day. He kept in touch and has since some back a year or so ago and still text, see eachother on nights out etc. I suppose I better add in the fact that we ended up together a few times but not for a while now because we haven't been out

Anyway he text me out of the blue last week asking how I was and we text for a few days until my phone decided to break. He then text me Sunday and been doing so since. However I don't know where this is headed, I love talking to him but I don't know what his motives are ie. is he thinking about reconciling or what? I fell asleep last night so missed his last text. Should I text him today or leave it....I would be interested in maybe seeing him again and see how it goes but I dont want to push anything either. I can't judge by his messages but he is also quite shy when it comes to this but his friends have tld me in the past he is still very caring for me and talks about me. So confused!

Thanks, any advice appreciated

Idle Passerby

Your probably making this needlessly complicated with the texting back and forth. You like him, he must be at least somewhat interested in you, why dont you ask him out? Get in touch properly, say youd like to meet him for coffee or a drink or whatever. If things are really cloudy between the two of you just spell it out, that you like him and wouldn't mind getting back together. The worst that could happen is he refuses, in which case you know the casual hook ups were just that.

qwertytlk

From what you say it seem there are still feelings there on both sides. And i dont think he would be texting you this much if he didnt want something to come of it. If he was just contacting you in a friendly manner and to say hi then i dont think the texts would still be coming in. I mean he would have asked how u are, had a little catch up which would be 3-4 texts max. But he has clearly gone above and beyond that. So i suggest you decided if you want to give it another go and if you do then suggest you meet for a night out and see where it goes from there..

IrishEyes19

Take the matter into your own hands and arrange a proper date. You control how somehow treats you, if you hang around, it will be casual back and forth texting or else you could take the risk and try and arrange a date. see how it goes.