still thinkin about her?

LegacyUser

I started seeing this girl a few months ago,Actually i'v known her years but I never really fancied or even gave her a second thought, However we began to spend lots of time together and I realised that I started to have feeling for her and she told me that she had feelings for me..


We began textin each other a lot and we had a lot of passion between us. I told her that I was a virgin and she said that was no problem and told me that she would ''look after'' me anyway we had sex once and a few days later she decided that we needed to stop seeing each other.. Anyway I said ok and she told me she wanted to stay friends... So I got her off my mind for weeks and didnt contact her atall..she did text me though(i know she has been out with a another bloke since and i decided to forget about her) . Now she is very upset cause I never replied to her text messages and said ''i thought you might have died'' she seemed worried which leads me to believe that she must still have feeling for me?

Ever since she sent me the message I just cant stop thinkin about her, she said she would meet up with me during the week for a chat. I not sure wether to ask if she'd like to start again? i'm not sure why i'm so attached could it be because i lost my virginity to her?

Long Time Reader

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I started seeing this girl a few months ago,Actually i'v known her years but I never really fancied or even gave her a second thought, However we began to spend lots of time together and I realised that I started to have feeling for her and she told me that she had feelings for me..


We began textin each other a lot and we had a lot of passion between us. I told her that I was a virgin and she said that was no problem and told me that she would ''look after'' me anyway we had sex once and a few days later she decided that we needed to stop seeing each other.. Anyway I said ok and she told me she wanted to stay friends... So I got her off my mind for weeks and didnt contact her atall..she did text me though(i know she has been out with a another bloke since and i decided to forget about her) . Now she is very upset cause I never replied to her text messages and said ''i thought you might have died'' she seemed worried which leads me to believe that she must still have feeling for me?

Ever since she sent me the message I just cant stop thinkin about her, she said she would meet up with me during the week for a chat. I not sure wether to ask if she'd like to start again? i'm not sure why i'm so attached could it be because i lost my virginity to her?

You answered your own question. Of course your going to have strong feelings for the person if, you were already good friends and then you decide to give up your 'flower' :):)

If she doesn't want to continue the relationship thats cool. It's her choice. But, don't take every communication from her as being 'a step closer' to get back with her.

Man don't understand woman. And never will. I suggest take this as a lesson in relationship and move on. But still hang out with the bird. (just don't try drop the hand at every chance)

James W

Hard to know what to say or advise really - I'd tread with caution, mind your heart and keep your feelings under control until you're on more certain ground with this person.