First move?

m@cc@

I've been hanging out with this girl I like at work (don't work directly with her, just in the same building) but obviously playing it carefully because, well it's work.

I think she is interested but I guess I want to be 100% sure without coming across as a weirdo.

She constantly makes references to the fact that people at work think there is something going on between us which she says doesn't bother her but I guess it worries my why she goes on about it.

How do you play a situation like this given that it is work-related?

LovelyLottie

sunflower27 wrote: »

I think if she was uncomfortable she wouldn't keep mentioning it - I know I wouldn't, I'd be discouraging it.

Bite the bullet and ask her out if you want, it's hardly going to make you look like a weirdo - it's what grown-ups that like each other do.

Totally. If i didn't like a guy in that way, i'd never mention it (and certainly not repeatedly mention it!) and i'd quickly change the subject if he brought it up.

IrishEyes19

Ask her out, Op, at the end of the day, you like her. Give it a shot. If anything it's flattery and if she doesn't respond plenty of more fish in the sea. Keep it casual, suggest a coffee or a casual drink.

barbiegirl

Been there and now married to him Ask her out, or is there a night out coming up that you will both be on.
Just remember that with work relationships, you have to be mature. If Which ever way it goes it must not affect work, the work environment or colleagues. If you can handle that then off you go

m@cc@

Well, confronted it and got the 'friend' speech. But still feel the better for having known.

LovelyLottie

Aw, well at least you know now, and good on you for taking a chance

ButterflyABC

LovelyLottie wrote: »

Aw, well at least you know now, and good on you for taking a chance

Exactly fair play for taking a chance.