Dealing with rejection

socco

So I just took a chance and asked out this girl I met a few weeks ago. She turned me down but did it in such a nice way that I can't even hate her for it... god damn bitch! So the question now is how do I deal with the rejection...

flap?
get drunk?
flap some more?

I need some after hours humour... show me your finest...

Captain Darling

socco wrote: »

So I just took a chance and asked out this girl I met a few weeks ago. She turned me down but did it in such a nice way that I can't even hate her for it... god damn bitch! So the question now is how do I deal with the rejection...

flap?
get drunk?
flap some more?

I need some after hours humour... show me your finest...

Dont flap too hard, you might take off.

General General

Flap?

What are you? A penguin?[PHP][/PHP]

BBDBB

you show me yours

and I'll point and laugh

just to make it a perfect evening for you

El Weirdo

socco wrote: »

So I just took a chance and asked out this girl I met a few weeks ago. She turned me down but did it in such a nice way that I can't even hate her for it... god damn bitch! So the question now is how do I deal with the rejection...

flap?
get drunk?
flap some more?

I need some after hours humour... show me your finest...

You're doing it wrong.

socco

General General wrote: »

Flap?

What are you? A penguin?

well I am mix of black and white...

Immaculate Pasta

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2e7dpVDX54

:cool:

YFlyer

socco wrote: »

So I just took a chance and asked out this girl I met a few weeks ago. She turned me down but did it in such a nice way that I can't even hate her for it... god damn bitch! So the question now is how do I deal with the rejection...

flap?
get drunk?
flap some more?

I need some after hours humour... show me your finest...

You sound like you're not a wanker. Girls love ****.

socco

El Weirdo wrote: »

You're doing it wrong.

what should I be doing instead?

AnonoBoy

socco wrote: »

So I just took a chance and asked out this girl I met a few weeks ago.

• Start reading PUA books
• 5 years down the line realise that only sad losers do that.
• Cry a bit.
• Then come back on here and we'll all laugh and admit we were taking the piss.
• Then we'll give you some real advice (honest!)

W.Shakes-Beer

Have a good aul flap for yourself OP, because you're not getting hers.

Mickey Dazzler

When such things happen to me I return home and lock my self in my darkened room and begin to wail out loud at the top of my voice shouting "you cnut, you cnut, you cnut, you cnut" while punching myself in the face with one closed fist as hard as I can and absolutely tearing the mickey off myself with the other hand all the while crying my eyes out.

socco

Mickey Dazzler wrote: »

When such things happen to me I return home and lock my self in my darkened room and begin to wail out loud at the top of my voice shouting "you cnut, you cnut, you cnut, you cnut" while punching myself in the face with one closed fist as hard as I can and absolutely tearing the mickey off myself with the other hand all the while crying my eyes out.

best idea I've got so far.... my housemates might find the noises a bit weird... any suggestions for a soundtrack to cover the noise?

stupidusername

if she was really nice about it, there's nothing to feel bad about. plenty more lovely women out there. but yeah in the meantime, flap some

TeddyTedson

Go gym, get shredded. Wait till people start mirin' you brah.
Rave. If you ever see her again just blank the bitch:cool:

socco

stupidusername wrote: »

if she was really nice about it, there's nothing to feel bad about. plenty more lovely women out there. but yeah in the meantime, flap some

I don't feel bad about asking her out, she was def worth it. Its just no one likes to be rejected. Its a natural response to feel down afterwards.

Mickey Dazzler

socco wrote: »

best idea I've got so far.... my housemates might find the noises a bit weird... any suggestions for a soundtrack to cover the noise?

Venga boys "Boom Boom Boom" on repeat.

shannon_tek

... and this is why we dont take chances in life when it comes to women. but na fair play keep up the good work . wish i could send myself out there

YFlyer

From Urban Dictionary

19.flap1 up, 20 downEither a typo or lack of internet slang knowledge when talking about male masterbation, see (*fap fap fap*)
Him: omg did you see that picture of that supermodel!!11! *flap flap flap*

Me: dude youre an idiot, does your penis have wings or something?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flap&page=3

socco

shannon_tek wrote: »

... and this is why we dont take chances in life when it comes to women. but na fair play keep up the good work . wish i could send myself out there

so your saying its time to lock myself in my room only order stuff online and never leave the house / talk to another woman again... I'd never get rejected again... sounds fail proof to me, sign me up!

Babybuff

I' snorted my tea out of my nose

strobe

Sleep with her Da. That'll learn her.

Underdraft

YFlyer wrote: »

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flap&page=3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vg7_gaVUd0

socco

YFlyer wrote: »

From Urban Dictionary

19.flap1 up, 20 downEither a typo or lack of internet slang knowledge when talking about male masterbation, see (*fap fap fap*)
Him: omg did you see that picture of that supermodel!!11! *flap flap flap*

Me: dude youre an idiot, does your penis have wings or something?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flap&page=3

well I have been drinking red bull...

socco

Babybuff wrote: »

I' snorted my tea out of my nose

pics please!

saywhatyousee

Just think about it op she is probaly mocking you as we speak with her friends,the lesson is never try!!!

socco

strobe wrote: »

Sleep with her Da. That'll learn her.

wouldn't that em...

Babybuff

socco wrote: »

pics please!

I'll take a pic just don't edit your post! seriously though, well done I needed the that

stupidusername

socco wrote: »

I don't feel bad about asking her out, she was def worth it. Its just no one likes to be rejected. Its a natural response to feel down afterwards.

I was referring to the rejection part.

shannon_tek wrote: »

... and this is why we dont take chances in life when it comes to women. but na fair play keep up the good work . wish i could send myself out there

awh, that's sad.

strobe wrote: »

Sleep with her Da. That'll learn her.

You're her da aren't you?

socco

Babybuff wrote: »

I'll take a pic just don't edit your post! seriously though, well done I needed the that

Hey I'm imperfect but I have no shame about that so there is no risk of me editing my previous posts.

RichieC

It's the one thing that's gotten harder to deal with as I've gotten older... even though I've done everything to avoid it as I've gotten older.

My advice to myself is as always to think of life like a computer game... you don't take the shame with you at the end.

Do everything the opposite to what I have done.

HazDanz

Rejection **** your way out of your self pity, use your tears as lube.

It works trust me