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Did I lose her

  • 29-01-2012 7:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I had been datng a girl for almost a month, everything was going great and her attitude changed dramatically overnight. It all went to hell after she spent one evening hanging out with her female friend. She sent me an angry e-mail outlining that I did not respect her feelings and was manipulative. I wrote an apology e-mail to her and her reply was "I am not sure what I want to do yet. The only thing that I am certain about is that I need time. Please respect that." I told her (email) I would respect her wish to give her time and have not contacted her since. Is this over, how much time should I give her?


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  • #2
    nowyouresix
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭nowyouresix


    Was there any reason she would have turned? Did you do anything to upset her? If you didn't, or even if you think you didn't, then if I were you I'd put my trainers on and start running !! Do you need this drama one month in ???? if you want to contact her, give her 5 days to a week to think things through.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I can think the conversation she had with her friend may have resulted in her deciding to question things between us. I was going to wait about 2 weeks, maybe its too long ore even too short. I need female perspective on this


  • #4
    Missy Moo Moo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 238 ✭✭Missy Moo Moo


    feeling low wrote: »
    I had been datng a girl for almost a month, everything was going great and her attitude changed dramatically overnight. It all went to hell after she spent one evening hanging out with her female friend. She sent me an angry e-mail outlining that I did not respect her feelings and was manipulative. I wrote an apology e-mail to her and her reply was "I am not sure what I want to do yet. The only thing that I am certain about is that I need time. Please respect that." I told her (email) I would respect her wish to give her time and have not contacted her since. Is this over, how much time should I give her?

    What exactly was your apology mail for? Was there an incident or were the accusations in her mail justified? If not, then give her all the time in the world, i.e. infinite time cos she sounds like a drama queen or else she wanted to break it off and went for the attack/ blame approach.


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