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ballymagarvey village??? any reviews???

  • 26-01-2012 11:05pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 60 ✭✭


    has anyone been to a wedding in ballymagarvey village near slane???? thinking of booking it but want a few opinions before hand


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4 Balgrath


    I too would be interested in some reviews. if anyone has prices etc.. i'd defo be interested in a PM. I have it on my short list to go and see.
    thanks
    Bal


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,424 ✭✭✭garhjw


    i haven't been but friends have and said it was amazing. however, it does have a big price tage to go with it. i think it starts at €125 a head


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,242 ✭✭✭liliq


    they do a winter deal for €8999 for min 100 people...
    max price goes to about €119pp as far as i remember.
    Went to see it last week... it is fab, but to be honest i thought it lacked character. Very much my own opinion, as i like somewhere to be more "real" rustic if that makes any sense!
    The function room is quite big, you'd probably want a bit over 100 people for it to feel full at all.

    Bedrooms in the main house were all gorgeous.

    If it was within budget I'd def recommend at least going to have a look at it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,263 ✭✭✭✭Borderfox


    In some ways its really nice, the old house works well and the function room being seperated is nice but there is something about the place I cant put my finger on. Maybe its a bit forced and the price would put me off for a start. Food was nearly the best I have had.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Borderfox wrote: »
    In some ways its really nice, the old house works well and the function room being seperated is nice but there is something about the place I cant put my finger on. Maybe its a bit forced and the price would put me off for a start. Food was nearly the best I have had.

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    And the bar is outside the function room.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,263 ✭✭✭✭Borderfox


    The one main thing I like about is that its only your guests are there


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 83 ✭✭LJL


    do you know how many people it caters for?
    i would be very interested in this place. its fab.


  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 8,679 Mod ✭✭✭✭Rew


    Bar outside the function room doesn't work unless its a very large wedding. Function room was emptied after the meal and it was tough to get people back into dance. Id agree 100% with Borderfox's comment, there is something about the place that keeps it from being as amazing as it prices its self.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,301 ✭✭✭Gatica


    We liked the look of it, the brochure I got was 125 a head as well. We simply couldn't afford that for our numbers.
    Otherwise, it looks very pretty.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 290 ✭✭LBD


    We got married there in July. Had 120 at our wedding, bar being outside the function room was a minor problem on an otherwise beautiful day.....and really only in retrospect.......I didnt notice at the time!

    Our guests were stunned with the place.....literally as was the case with the food. It was amazing and simply kept coming. They gave us enough food for a week! We had a rare fab day in July , the sun was shining which helped as the guests could make full use of the house and grounds which I think is BMG's major selling point! We also had a sing song into the wee hours (6am) which is another major plus, no hotel guests to disturb :p

    Anyone need a more detailed review (including negatives ;)) feel free to PM me! On the whole though fabulous place although I am probably biased!! Oh and we were able to haggle on price.....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    LBD wrote: »
    We got married there in July. Had 120 at our wedding, bar being outside the function room was a minor problem on an otherwise beautiful day.....and really only in retrospect.......I didnt notice at the time!

    Our guests were stunned with the place.....literally as was the case with the food. It was amazing and simply kept coming. They gave us enough food for a week! We had a rare fab day in July , the sun was shining which helped as the guests could make full use of the house and grounds which I think is BMG's major selling point! We also had a sing song into the wee hours (6am) which is another major plus, no hotel guests to disturb :p

    Anyone need a more detailed review (including negatives ;)) feel free to PM me! On the whole though fabulous place although I am probably biased!! Oh and we were able to haggle on price.....

    I played there several times last year, everyone always had a good time, but as said earlier...there will be more people in the bar then in the dancefloor for the music. just unavoidable at an irish wedding. doesnt matter who's playing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73,520 ✭✭✭✭colm_mcm


    Was a guest there, thought it was lovely that there was nobody else there, the bar thing is a bit odd, but all in all I really liked it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    LBD wrote: »
    Anyone need a more detailed review (including negatives ;)) feel free to PM me!
    This ain't weddingsonline, boards.ie doesn't rely on the wedding suppliers as advertisers so we're allowed post negatives on the main forum ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 290 ✭✭LBD


    Sleepy wrote: »
    This ain't weddingsonline, boards.ie doesn't rely on the wedding suppliers as advertisers so we're allowed post negatives on the main forum ;)

    I sincerely hope you are not alluding to the fact that I am somehow affiliated with Ballymagarvey? A quick read through of my post history will put that one to bed.

    Over all my experience with them was good which is the point I was trying to get across. I offered for people to pm as I found this a help in the run up to my wedding. I had very specific problems with them which, if mentioned in a public post would lead straight back to me so I am entitled to keep this private. No other reasons. I was only trying to be helpful.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    * deleted by request*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 290 ✭✭LBD


    I edited my original post. Would rather you dont quote it thanks Clint_silver.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    LBD wrote: »
    I edited my original post. Would rather you dont quote it thanks Clint_silver.

    done. :)

    It should be noted you will not read a bad recommendations on weddingsonline for one of their advertisers no matter how honest and true review is, search and try and find one. I dont mind this, its their business, I wouldnt advertise with them if I seen them allowing a bad recommendation either.
    However it kind of questions any standards they have around "a weddingsonline preferred vendor". So how does anyone reading the reviews get impartial recommendations when the view is "they advertise with us, therefore they must be great".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    LBD wrote: »
    I sincerely hope you are not alluding to the fact that I am somehow affiliated with Ballymagarvey? A quick read through of my post history will put that one to bed.

    Over all my experience with them was good which is the point I was trying to get across. I offered for people to pm as I found this a help in the run up to my wedding. I had very specific problems with them which, if mentioned in a public post would lead straight back to me so I am entitled to keep this private. No other reasons. I was only trying to be helpful.
    As was I.

    I incorrectly assumed that the offer to PM the negative aspects was related to the policy of other wedding forums to delete anything negative about their advertisers and a lack of familiarity with this forum's rules. No suggestion that you're in any way related to the company.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 290 ✭✭LBD


    done. :)

    It should be noted you will not read a bad recommendations on weddingsonline for one of their advertisers no matter how honest and true review is, search and try and find one. I dont mind this, its their business, I wouldnt advertise with them if I seen them allowing a bad recommendation either.
    However it kind of questions any standards they have around "a weddingsonline preferred vendor". So how does anyone reading the reviews get impartial recommendations when the view is "they advertise with us, therefore they must be great".


    No I have to apologise. I completely took the post up wrong and am sorry for my quick response! I am just not comfortable which bad mouthing them in public.....I suppose I'm a bit of a wuss :( no problems giving an honest review privately :rolleyes:

    I see where you're coming from as a supplier though. My photographer was a weddingsonline preferred vendor who we were less than impressed with as it turns out so there is definitely some truth in what you're saying!!

    I don't moan about all suppliers btw, most were excellent :D:D


  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 8,679 Mod ✭✭✭✭Rew


    Something worth considering, I heard about someone who is getting married there and asked for a bar to be setup in the function room and close the bar next door.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Rew wrote: »
    Something worth considering, I heard about someone who is getting married there and asked for a bar to be setup in the function room and close the bar next door.

    this works great in other places. Drink selection is normally limited but do serve to keep people in the room. The westin hotel function room is the only place I see this regularly but Id say only because the main bar is actually downstairs in there.

    not sure where they could set that up in the room in ballymagarvey, the times Ive played there, the room has been jammed and a temporary bar would take some amount of time to set up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,263 ✭✭✭✭Borderfox


    Not the biggest of function rooms and when the band is in it would be very squashed for space, any band I have seen there have had the floor full all night so must be you Clint :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 seaside house


    Hi there, Im hoping to book my wedding in bmv very soon and I was wondering if you have any tips regarding the haggling?? Also if you had any pics of ur day id love to see them.

    Cheers!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 miumiu1


    Hi there, Im hoping to book my wedding in bmv very soon and I was wondering if you have any tips regarding the haggling?? Also if you had any pics of ur day id love to see them.

    Cheers!!
    Hi Seaside House,
    Just got engaged and in the hunt for a venue at the moment. Was considering BMV and I was wondering how you got on with the haggling & prices? Also had you any luck with having to book out all the accommodation? Any assistance at all would be great as I am totally new to all this!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 Parable


    I was immediately attracted to Ballymagarvey and budgeted for 135 guests. The views, house and grounds are stunning; however the more we spoke to the staff the more disassociated we became. The owner/manager was extremely helpful and friendly, however the staff were all over the place. As with most people we tried to get a fair price to cater for alternative choices i.e. bespoke (nothing complicated I might add). We received incorrect prices, after 3 visits had spoken to 7 different members of staff, phone calls not returned and complete disinterest. I'm not sure if they may have put in a greater effort if we were inviting larger numbers but this is what they advertise for and after all it is our wedding day! We're a very easy going couple who visited 3 other venues that all provided an excellent service.

    Perhaps we were unlucky and it was during a marketing campaign Ballymagarvey had, but I feel the basics of service should be to a reasonable standard and we felt they were not.

    Best of luck with choosing a venue!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,797 ✭✭✭sweetie


    I djed a wedding here on saturday after a band. I thought the place looked amazing and the staff couldn't have been nicer or more helpful to us especially considering the room is a bit awkward to setup in after the meal. The bar being sperate didnt seem much of an issue for the band or dj set and althought the band started late due to speeches etc I was allowed play till nearly 3 am so the couple didn't lose out. It certainly had the wow factor for me and I've seem nearly all the great venues in leinster.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 Cat2111


    Hi I hope you dont mind me messaging you but thought you might be able to help? I was about to put down a deposit in ballymagarvey but am a bit concerned as they agreed a package with us verbally and they went back on it in the written agreement. Would you mind sharing with me how you go on with the haggling? We are having a big wedding about 180. Thanks, Caitriona


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Cat2111 wrote: »
    Hi I hope you dont mind me messaging you but thought you might be able to help? I was about to put down a deposit in ballymagarvey but am a bit concerned as they agreed a package with us verbally and they went back on it in the written agreement. Would you mind sharing with me how you go on with the haggling? We are having a big wedding about 180. Thanks, Caitriona

    This is not a haggling issue on price for me, this is an honesty issue. Ask them to justify the difference in price and is that how they normally do business? And if you agree to it, what else are they going to renege on?


    Im not suprised in the least by this from them. Not to be trusted IMO.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2 Cat2111


    Thanks so much. Yes I was surprised to be honest. I have had some trouble on the co-ordination side....talking to 4/5 people and all sending me different details and different prices. I do love the venue but a bit concerned. How did your wedding go? Where you happy overall? Thanks


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,906 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Cat2111 wrote: »
    Thanks so much. Yes I was surprised to be honest. I have had some trouble on the co-ordination side....talking to 4/5 people and all sending me different details and different prices. I do love the venue but a bit concerned. How did your wedding go? Where you happy overall? Thanks

    Not my wedding, I do wedding band and DJ and have played there a few times. Couple of bad experiences with management. staff themselves are nice.

    I dont think Ive ever said anything bad about any service or venue on here but the manager up there has made me come close a couple of times. :mad:

    You meet a few personalities along the way and can live with that but he is the only guy in the entire country in any venue who ever p'd me off. Twice!!! 'nuff said.

    Staff are nice though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,584 ✭✭✭PCPhoto


    Cat2111 wrote: »
    Hi I hope you dont mind me messaging you but thought you might be able to help? I was about to put down a deposit in ballymagarvey but am a bit concerned as they agreed a package with us verbally and they went back on it in the written agreement. Would you mind sharing with me how you go on with the haggling? We are having a big wedding about 180. Thanks, Caitriona

    if they have changed anything - it could have been an oversight ...tell them what you agreed.

    if they are not willing to facilitate you - tell them thats fine - you will look elsewhere....there are plenty of other locations who would welcome 180guests.

    I proposed over a month ago and we are looking at venues at the moment, we're quite willing to tell the various hotels etc that we want this cheaper or we want that included in the price.... you are carrying a huge bargaining tool - you want to give the venue €15-20K+ .... but only the venue that is most willing to cater to your needs.

    it might be a bit of a distance for you but you could look around ... we love the brooklodge - Macreddin Village (€125 per head + extras ....they are willing to haggle)....we have not booked anywhere yet .... spent the bank holiday weekend looking at 10 different venues between Wicklow, Dublin and Meath


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 Roo1977


    PCPhoto wrote: »
    if they have changed anything - it could have been an oversight ...tell them what you agreed.

    if they are not willing to facilitate you - tell them thats fine - you will look elsewhere....there are plenty of other locations who would welcome 180guests.

    I proposed over a month ago and we are looking at venues at the moment, we're quite willing to tell the various hotels etc that we want this cheaper or we want that included in the price.... you are carrying a huge bargaining tool - you want to give the venue €15-20K+ .... but only the venue that is most willing to cater to your needs.

    it might be a bit of a distance for you but you could look around ... we love the brooklodge - Macreddin Village (€125 per head + extras ....they are willing to haggle)....we have not booked anywhere yet .... spent the bank holiday weekend looking at 10 different venues between Wicklow, Dublin and Meath

    Hi PCPhoto - how has your search for a venue progressed? I am going to BMV's open day this Sunday to see it in person, am concerned about the bar being outside the function room.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,797 ✭✭✭sweetie


    Roo1977 wrote: »
    Hi PCPhoto - how has your search for a venue progressed? I am going to BMV's open day this Sunday to see it in person, am concerned about the bar being outside the function room.

    Many very nice venues have the bar outside the function room (i could name a dozen) and whilst it can make it more difficult to keep a crowd in one place all experienced wedding bands and djs will have dealt with this before and be doing their utmost to keep the dancefloor busy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 Acall02


    Hi we have booked BMG for next year.

    It would be great to get any feedback. Good and bad.

    Thanks


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 bream


    Not my wedding, I do wedding band and DJ and have played there a few times. Couple of bad experiences with management. staff themselves are nice.

    I dont think Ive ever said anything bad about any service or venue on here but the manager up there has made me come close a couple of times. :mad:

    You meet a few personalities along the way and can live with that but he is the only guy in the entire country in any venue who ever p'd me off. Twice!!! 'nuff said.

    Staff are nice though.


    I'd have to agree, i was a best man at a wedding there recently and dealing with the manager was a bit of a challenge-the venue was great as were the rest of the staff, just a couple of incidents with management that grated a bit


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 77 ✭✭msbusterpuss


    Hi All, I was at a wedding here recently and I was not a fan. The bar being outside the room is a bit of a problem and you would want to have an absolutely brilliant band for this.

    The service - well it was terrible, the staff barely even looked at us, leaned over and across us consistently, they threw the food at us and stuck their hands out for the plates to be handed back. It was like a pack of oul ones standing around chatting and that having to serve us was a total inconvenience.

    With regards to the food, it was nice there just wasnt enough we were starving. We were at a table of 12 and we got one dish of baby potatoes and one dish of veg - a few people at our table were left with neither and when we asked for more - well we never got it. There was one basket of bread and it was brought out after the soup was served. The main was beef and it was a literally a sliver folded in half with a colouring of gravy. I have never been left starving at a wedding.

    The venue is amazing and the bar staff were excellent. They were the only plus points.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭Jerrica


    I'm getting married in BMV so I'm reading this thread with great interest!

    We fell in love with the venue when we went to see it and booked it on the spot. To date the staff we've dealt with have been fantastic.

    To me, if the venue is top notch that's half the battle there and then. A couple of my guests have said they've attended weddings there and they have nothing but great things to say about the venue, staff and the food.

    msbusterpuss it's interesting that you say you were at a table for 12, I was under the impression they largely only did tables of 8 (which makes much more sense for serving, anything more than that and it could get messy). We haven't done our tasting yet but we're planning on going for options that we think everyone will like and we want to make sure everyone is well fed. Between the food after the ceremony, the main meal and the late evening food we hope that's the case.

    The bar in a separate room has its plusses and minuses - I quite like it as it means that people can have a drink in a quieter spot if they'd like it. Also I like the idea of everyone being able to mill around on their own time and not feeling like they 'have' to stay in one place for any time. We'll have a DJ and not a band, but even at that I'm not a dance all night kind of person and will be looking forward to the after party and a sing-song with the guests staying in the house as much as the dancing :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 confusedbride


    Id love to know people's opinions. Im totally confused. Ive have booked Ballymagarvey and Tankardstown Provisionally and CANNOT decide. theres pros and cons to both. BMG i dont like that the bar is outside and im worried the room will look empty with 130 and that ppl will prop up the bar all night and not dance..the only other concern is the staff, i get someone different every time i call or email and no one can ever answer directly they have to get back to me.. I love the house, the ceremony room, the grounds. They are better value for arrival reception, the meal with the wine and the cottage for people to stay?
    TKS is beautiful, the house is pristine, the wine is not included and the arrival drinks with the package, the rooms are very expensive for people to stay and the grounds are fantastic but not as wow as BMG. I dont like that they lock upstairs when were down at the meal and people cant roam about. And im also worried that 130 will look too small in their room???
    Help


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 157 ✭✭Ray von


    Was at a wedding in Ballymagarvey a couple of weeks ago lovely venue.

    Pros:

    Lovely house for arrival drinks and canapes. Guy on piano added to the atmosphere.
    Little bar next to house had a great atmosphere also.
    Food & service was top notch.

    Cons:
    Not enough rooms to accomadate all overnight guests
    Bar not in function room which did leave the dance floor empty at times. Especially when the band finished and DJ began.

    Maybe you could ask them to remove all seating from the bar so people can't get comfortable and will be forced to return with drinks to the function room.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 746 ✭✭✭doughef


    Hi,

    I was at a wedding there last year. We stayed 2 nights in the main house.
    The house was fab, it was a cold day and they had fires lighting and it very cosy.
    Our room was at the top of the house, not the best in the house and a bit pricey but it was a family wedding.
    I loved the fact that we completely took over the house and there was no need to lock your door or anything.
    Also, I've never come down for breakfast before and seen the chef actually in the kitchen and cooking exactly what you wanted.

    The bar in the house is lovely. There were two young fella working and they were really superb, great craic, and closing time was at your own choosing :D
    As for the wedding venue? it was lovely, bar outside the function room but it wasnt the end of the world..
    We stayed on the extra day and had a party... great day again.

    I enjoyed it


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 confusedbride


    Thanks a million guys.. yeah i did ask them to remove the bar stools and some of the seats. Im considering having a bar in the function room down the back now, just bottles and spirits which leaves ppl going out for pints?? havent asked that one yet..
    going to visit tankardstown once more and decide then.. accommodation isnt an issue once ive about 10 rooms.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 skimo


    Hi


    I absolutely loved Ballymagarvey and was going to book them for my wedding next year but I am finding it hard to get answers for my queries. I was talking to somebody else and he said his wedding is there next month and he was finding it difficult too?

    Is anyone else having the same problems???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,034 ✭✭✭Theboinkmaster


    TKS is beautiful, the house is pristine, the wine is not included and the arrival drinks with the package, the rooms are very expensive for people to stay and the grounds are fantastic but not as wow as BMG. I dont like that they lock upstairs when were down at the meal and people cant roam about. And im also worried that 130 will look too small in their room???
    Help

    I got married in Tankardstown last year and could not fault the place. It is expensive but worth every cent IMO. Only the main house rooms are expensive, the cottages at €90 per person are good value when you consider the luxury of them - they are really 5 star (white company bedsheets, molton brown toilitries, nespresso machines etc).

    I think the grounds are awesome but you say not are nice as BMV however i think quality of food, drink and service is ALOT more of a priority to how the grounds look. There's no point coming in and thinking WOW and then at dinner the food or service is crap. And when it comes to food, drink and service Tankardstown is like an expensive restaurant, not quite michelin star but nearly. How many weddings can you order how you want your steak cooked...

    When you say they lock upstairs do you mean upstairs of the main house? we had family staying there and all doors were unlocked however none of our guests ventured up there, as why would they? if you don't have guests staying upstairs then they're right to lock it off, why would guests want to have a look up there - they wouldn't.

    You're having 130 - i assume it's in their new orangery? You have to trust them they have an ability to make the space perfect for each wedding size and id have no doubt they'd make that amount look great there. We had about 65 in their main dining room (the one at the front of the house) and it was perfect - so double that in the organgery would be great IMO.

    Obviously take all of this with a pink of salt as I'm obviously biased ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 confusedbride


    skimo wrote: »
    Hi


    I absolutely loved Ballymagarvey and was going to book them for my wedding next year but I am finding it hard to get answers for my queries. I was talking to somebody else and he said his wedding is there next month and he was finding it difficult too?

    Is anyone else having the same problems???

    I considered them but no one would answer my questions, literally everything had to go through about 3 people. I started labelling my emails to a specific girl because anyone was replying to me and no one ever had a straight answer..i was worried that it would only annoy me closer to the date. to be honest they acted like they werent bothered about getting my money in the end..even the day we visited on the open day I could hear few guides saying 'im not sure about that ill let you know'..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 Shinthing


    skimo wrote: »
    Hi


    I absolutely loved Ballymagarvey and was going to book them for my wedding next year but I am finding it hard to get answers for my queries. I was talking to somebody else and he said his wedding is there next month and he was finding it difficult too?

    Is anyone else having the same problems???

    I considered them but no one would answer my questions, literally everything had to go through about 3 people. I started labelling my emails to a specific girl because anyone was replying to me and no one ever had a straight answer..i was worried that it would only annoy me closer to the date. to be honest they acted like they werent bothered about getting my money in the end..even the day we visited on the open day I could hear few guides saying 'im not sure about that ill let you know'..


    I have had the same problem I've even provisionally booked it but they still haven't gotten back to us about payment. I have told them on 3seperate occasion that I do not want different people answering my questions that I busted wanted to deal with one person. They have ignored this request in numerous accounts. And I'm nearly passed the point of loving the venue. I picked it because I liked the feel of the house but the staff just come across terrible they can't just answer simple questions. We wanted a 2day event day 1 for 200+ guests and day 2for 70guests and I've been out to view it twice once with my oh and once with my parents. Has anyone had any luck with discounts or extras??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭Jerrica


    Shinthing wrote: »
    Has anyone had any luck with discounts or extras??

    You won't get any, they don't really do discounts or haggling. I'm not that bothered about it though, all their prices are upfront and you know what you're getting. We're having two days also, and tbh the package is such good value for that day I'd feel a bit silly asking for anything off it :o

    I haven't had any of the other issues you've described - I have usually spoken to different people when I call alright, but that's just because they have a big team looking after the venue. We put down the €2500 deposit within days of booking it, made an appointment to go up and see it again, got assigned a coordinator and got sent our contract within 24 hours.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 Shinthing


    Jerrica wrote: »
    Shinthing wrote: »
    Has anyone had any luck with discounts or extras??

    You won't get any, they don't really do discounts or haggling. I'm not that bothered about it though, all their prices are upfront and you know what you're getting. We're having two days also, and tbh the package is such good value for that day I'd feel a bit silly asking for anything off it :o

    Hi jerrica
    Why would you feel silly asking for anything off. We've been in contact with both the shelbourne and Druids Glenn and have been offered way more for our money before even asking for a discount. Most premises offer more for the bride and groom as extras from anniversary stays to little touches like personalised bathrobes as a gift from the venue. The majority of places just give menus with guide prices that are not set in stone to allow people to negotiate. Plus it's a wedding for over 200people midweek. I'm pretty sure that most of there weddings are under the 150mark


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭Jerrica


    Silly isn't the right word I suppose - for the price we were given (likely the same as yours) it includes the BBQ for the party, money behind the bar and accommodation for all the guests. I don't see any reason to try and bargain that. You're right, they don't have the same extras that other places do, but what they do have is exclusivity and that means a lot to me - I know the venue is ours from 3pm on a Saturday to 12pm on a Monday: no other guests mingling around, no interruptions, dedicated staff, we have the run of the place to do as we wish. I love that they have the couple's trees in the garden and that I'll be able to sit around with all my friends and family having lazy cups of tea in the kitchen the day after. It'll essentially be 'our' house for the whole weekend, and I don't mind paying for that!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,034 ✭✭✭Theboinkmaster


    Shinthing wrote: »
    I have had the same problem I've even provisionally booked it but they still haven't gotten back to us about payment. I have told them on 3seperate occasion that I do not want different people answering my questions that I busted wanted to deal with one person. They have ignored this request in numerous accounts. And I'm nearly passed the point of loving the venue. I picked it because I liked the feel of the house but the staff just come across terrible they can't just answer simple questions. We wanted a 2day event day 1 for 200+ guests and day 2for 70guests and I've been out to view it twice once with my oh and once with my parents. Has anyone had any luck with discounts or extras??

    If they behave like that before you wedding when you're just trying to book them imagine what they'll be like for the actual wedding!? I'd run a mile and book elsewhere TBH


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 Shinthing


    Shinthing wrote: »
    And I'm nearly passed the point of loving the venue. I picked it because I liked the feel of the house but the staff just come across terrible they can't just answer simple questions. We wanted a 2day event day 1 for 200+ guests and day 2for 70guests.Has anyone had any luck with discounts or extras??

    If they behave like that before you wedding when you're just trying to book them imagine what they'll be like for the actual wedding!? I'd run a mile and book elsewhere TBH

    I know the only reason I like it is because its not a hotel. I didn't want the layout of a hotel because I feel once you've seen one hotel function room you've seen them all. I wanted something special but your paying more for it and yet they treat you worse than staff would in a 1star motel


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