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Is it meant to be easy?

  • 20-01-2012 10:46am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My bf and I have been together for a while, live together etc. Anyway the issue is that we seem to fight quite a bit. This is the longest relationship I've been in so I'm not sure how much is too much but today he said something and I cant get it out of my head. He said that it shouldnt be this hard, that it was normal to fight but that our relationship should be easier. I don't know what to think, I mean I agree with him but are we just not suited?

    We both really want to be together but can't seem to stop having stupid fights. They never last long and we are always both sorry etc but the fact is that its happened and I feel like its chipping away at us. I mean neither of us are going to stay together if we keep fighting but we dont seem to know how to stop. Help!


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    What are you fighting about? Are their recurrent themes to the arguments?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi Miss Fluff

    Some are and some arent. I guess we are quite different in our attitude to things and that seems to cause friction. I'm pretty proactive in my approach to things and his relaxed attitude can drive me crazy and vice versa. But I mean most of the time it can be small things or we try and have a discussion about something and it leads to a fight. It seems like we both take a lot of things that are brought up as personal criticism as opposed to just resolving it.


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