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mid 20's and not too bothered..

  • 17-01-2012 3:50am
    #1
    CB19Kevo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 800 ✭✭✭


    Mid 20's male and have been pretty much single all that time.
    I have had a number of nights with girls but never done the deed,

    I had a brief relationship about 2 years ago which i just thought would not work as the girl although good looking and nice was just not into the same things as me and i just was of the view that it wouldent work so i just backed off without any grief from her.

    In that 2 years its been quite enough but i enjoy just chancing my arm with the ladies out there and having a laugh - Not too stressed either way.

    Recently i got into a relationship with a friend of a friend, Again she was a good looking girl with a nice personality but i just did'nt feel right about it and just said that we should stay friends, This did not go down well but i did not promise anything from the start and in my view i think its better to say it out if theres a problem.


    I hear a lot of people complaining that they are single here but is it strange that i rather being single even though i dont get much action ?


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  • #2
    Little Acorn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭Little Acorn


    No I don't think it's strange that you rather being single. Infact for someone in their 20's I think you are showing great maturity and decency in your relationships to date. (I'm only 24 myself and happily in a very long term relationship, but see a lot my age who play games or just handle things very badly by staying with people they are not happy with)
    You have the confidence to give things a shot with girls you fancy and you do go for it.
    You also have the confidence, honesty, decency and enough feelings of self worth to not stick around in a relationship that does not feel right to you or just "settle", and you are honest with the girls involved too.
    As long as you are happy, which you said you are, then I can see no problem in your situation.
    All sounds like a very healthy mindset to me that you have! :)


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