where have all the nice woman gone!

dancesatnight

ive been dating now for a few months, been to clubs pubs and late bars. met some nice girl but only to find out there cracked! is it just me or most irish girls nuts and expecting to much of men these days ?

Dravokivich

It's a numbers game really...

stupidusername

I could say the same about men tbh. I'm nice but yeah probably a bit cracked too.

dancesatnight

true sure ill be out tonight lol

lardossan

I reckon if Irish girls judged you by your spelling and grammar you'd be well and truly boned.

Phat Cat

In before this gets locked!

Don't take it personally OP, Irish women in general seem to have serious self esteem issues and this usually projects into a bitchy persona which makes alot of them virtually unapproachable. Some also have ridiculously high standards which I find strange as most don't compare well when held up to women of different nationalities.

I'm married to an English woman btw.

Zulu

Well I married one, so I guess we only need to account for the other ~2,000,000 ladies.

mariebeth

It's the same problem with Irish men, a lot of the ones I come across seem to be 'cracked' in some way as well, but I've learnt not to judge all Irish men that way, there are nice guys out there, it's just hard to find them!

dancesatnight

lardossan wrote: »

I reckon if Irish girls judged you by your spelling and grammar you'd be well and truly boned.

ah balls so i can't spell or use grama and im ugly i truely am boned lol

i think your on to something Phat Cat.

syklops

There are a few things happening. First off, late bars and clubs are not really the places to go to find the mother of your children.

Even the 'nice' women in clubs and bars are not in 'nice' mode, they are in get hammered and find a hot guy to take home mode.

If you want to find a 'normal' girl, look for her in a normal place, like on the street or in the shopping centre or in museums.

If you want to date someone with similar interests as you go to the place where those type of people hang out and keep your eyes peeled.

In clubs women are being approached by all kinds of weirdos, so they have their guard up. Approach them when their guard is down, and you will have more luck.

Good hunting!

Zulu

Phat Cat wrote: »

Irish women in general seem to have serious self esteem issues and this usually projects into a bitchy persona which makes alot of them virtually unapproachable. Some also have ridiculously high standards which I find strange as most don't compare well when held up to women of different nationalities.

I'm fairly confident stating: this kind of generlised bullshit isn't welcome round these parts.

Panthro

The sweeping generalisations are coming thick and fast in here folks, so I would like to draw your attention to this part of the Charter for this forum.
Less of those type of comments folks please.

awec

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Panthro

Perhaps we should all look realise that every individual, whether it be male or female, we all have our own individual "quirks" if you will.
As syklops suggested, if you wish to find someone with similar interests to yourself, go to certain places other than the clubs and keep the eyes peeled!:)

dancesatnight

mariebeth wrote: »

It's the same problem with Irish men, a lot of the ones I come across seem to be 'cracked' in some way as well, but I've learnt not to judge all Irish men that way, there are nice guys out there, it's just hard to find them!

needle in a hay stack on both sides i guess

Phat Cat

I sincerely apologise to anybody that I offended with my last post.

My opinion is obviously not a popular one but it is my opinion none the less and I doubt that I'm the only one that feels this way as this topic seems to appear weekly on these forums for one reason or another. No smoke without fire etc.

For those of you in relationships which Irish women, more power to you, it's something that I could have never done.

magicwok

Phat Cat wrote: »

In before this gets locked!

Don't take it personally OP, Irish women in general seem to have serious self esteem issues and this usually projects into a bitchy persona which makes alot of them virtually unapproachable. Some also have ridiculously high standards which I find strange as most don't compare well when held up to women of different nationalities.

I'm married to an English woman btw.

Never a truer word spoken, I dont go out with irish girls for this reason

Fear Uladh

Phat Cat wrote: »

In before this gets locked!

Don't take it personally OP, Irish women in general seem to have serious self esteem issues and this usually projects into a bitchy persona which makes alot of them virtually unapproachable. Some also have ridiculously high standards which I find strange as most don't compare well when held up to women of different nationalities.

I'm married to an English woman btw.

Oh dear, in before the usual superwomen to the hurted females rescue. :pac:

As said before, clubs are the worst place to go in search of women but I actually find some pubs very decent if you go to the right ones.

Its best not to get too locked either.

Logical Fallacy

Phat Cat wrote: »

I sincerely apologise to anybody that I offended with my last post.

My opinion is obviously not a popular one but it is my opinion none the less and I doubt that I'm the only one that feels this way as this topic seems to appear weekly on these forums for one reason or another. No smoke without fire etc.

For those of you in relationships which Irish women, more power to you, it's something that I could have never done.

If you have no experience of having relationships with Irish women then how do you know what it's like?

Seems a bit of an odd statement to me.

stupidusername

I disagree with the sweeping statement that everybody that goes to pubs/nightclubs is looking to get laid. maybe you could apply this to men, but I wouldn't apply it to women anyway.

awec

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niamhx

Op can I ask, how old are you ? Reason I ask is, most 20 something's are needy, self unvolved pita. That goes for the guys too.

Can someone else explain the term "cracked" to me ? I'm not single or cracked, few lines alright !

Seomra Mushie

Phat Cat wrote: »

Some also have ridiculously high standards which I find strange as most don't compare well when held up to women of different nationalities.

I don't think there's anything wrong with anyone having high standards in who they date, no matter what they look like.

Seomra Mushie

Phat Cat wrote: »

My opinion is obviously not a popular one but it is my opinion none the less and I doubt that I'm the only one that feels this way as this topic seems to appear weekly on these forums for one reason or another. No smoke without fire etc.

Isn't it always the same few players making/contributing to these threads though?

Dravokivich

stupidusername wrote: »

I disagree with the sweeping statement that everybody that goes to pubs/nightclubs is looking to get laid. maybe you could apply this to men, but I wouldn't apply it to women anyway.

Em, no.

Seomra Mushie

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

If you have no experience of having relationships with Irish women then how do you know what it's like?

Seems a bit of an odd statement to me.

Good point.

hattoncracker

A lot of women, myself included, get groped, pawed at, end up wearing other peoples drinks, and I don't know about other girls, but I generally tend to get really annoyed by about 1am in a nightclub. I have a few drinks, but I don't go out to get drunk so I'm always sober enough for it to irritate me.
My friend had a guy put his hand up her skirt one night in a nightclub, when she turned and hit him, she got thrown out and he was allowed to stay.
Unless you are looking for a cheap lay, nightclubs probably aren't the best place to find a girlfriend.
I know a lot of people would disagree, but have you tried internet dating? I met my boyfriend online, and I'm in the best relationship I've ever had.

stupidusername

awec wrote: »

Doesn't apply to men either.

Dravokivich wrote: »

Em, no.

ok then, I wasn't saying it does, I said maybe ye want to (ye being mostly men here) as ye would know from a mans point of view.

dancesatnight

dancesatnight wrote: »

expecting to much of men these days ?

What kind of expectations are you coming across?

Otis Driftwood

Ehhhh,no.