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First Time Holiday

  • 12-01-2012 6:09pm
    #1
    PTH2009
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39,458 ✭✭✭✭


    So im with my gf 5 months now and for her bday i bought her tickets to a show in Dublin and were staying overnight and its coming up next week

    IM a bit nervos because this is our first time that the 2 of us will be on a short holiday together and am nervos that we mite get sick of each other.

    I dont know what to do, i know were not going nightclubbing or anything like that. I want to have a good time and i want her to have a good time

    Any Advice


Comments

  • #2
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    OP - you need to chill here.

    Just plan a lovely meal, a wander around some shops - grab a coffee at a nice coffee shop with a cake, if you have time take in a show or even do the obvious like the open top bus tour as corny as it is, or take the Dart out to Malahide or even the bus thingy on the Liffey - loads to do - just stop stressing over it. ;)

    How long are you staying in Dublin for?


  • #3
    woodchuck
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,411 ✭✭✭✭woodchuck


    Relax, it’s meant to be fun :) And you’re unlikely to run out of things to talk about as you’ve been going out for 5 months!! How long will you be in Dublin for, is it just one night?


  • #4
    Acoshla
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,729 ✭✭✭Acoshla


    One night in Dublin is hardly a holiday :) Going abroad for a week would be a much bigger test, you're with her 5 months and you're worried that you'll get bored spending one fun night in Dublin, where you already have plans and stuff? How long do you normally spend together, surely ye've gone out for the night before this, don't worry about it, just enjoy it!


  • #5
    Chinafoot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,894 ✭✭✭Chinafoot


    The only advice you need (and have been given in every single thread you have started) is to stop overthinking everything.

    You're going to Dublin for one night. I wouldn't class that as anything close to a holiday. Your fear of getting sick of each other is baffling. Its one night! You're going to a show. Go for dinner beforehand and then go for a drink afterwards then go back to your hotel.

    I don't mean to be harsh OP but seriously, you seem to expect the RI forum to hold your hand through every aspect of this relationship.

    Work on your self-esteem and stop over-analysing every little detail.


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