Should i contact him again or leave it?

LegacyUser

Hi everyone.

I met this guy a few months ago and we hit it off got on really well, anyway after that we were texting on and off. Anyway about two months ago we kinda arranged to meet up, he had said he might be able to make it.

Anyway fast forward to that night i heard nothing from him and i didn't text him either i just assumed he couldnt make it,it was just casually said anyway it wasnt a big deal.

Since that night i havn't heard a word from him and i havn't contacted him either but for some stange reason i can't stop thinking about him.

Should i just give him one last text or just forget about him??

I am a friend

Forget him... Sorry Op but I would say you were a stand by and he didnt even have the manners to cancel the date... Let him go... Plenty of nice men out there for the plucking

LegacyUser

That's a bit rude to not text you at all to at least cancel even. I suppose that's what happens with these casual things, some guys might think they can get away with that. I would say the same as the others and forget him even though it's easier said than done.

ElleEm

Yeah, i reckon it's gone passed the point where he would have contacted you if he was interested.

Ickle Magoo

I'd take his silence as his answer on whether he's interested.

Sorry, OP.

LegacyUser

Hi

Thanks everyone i know ye are all right eventhough its hard to deal with the rejection. I still want to text him just to see if he will reply but i know this is probably pointless as its pretty obvious he has no interest.

It's just hard i'm beginning to lose hope with the dating scene, i've been told i'm pretty but i still have no one.

Anyway thanks again

LegacyUser

man help wrote: »

Hi

Thanks everyone i know ye are all right eventhough its hard to deal with the rejection. I still want to text him just to see if he will reply but i know this is probably pointless as its pretty obvious he has no interest.

It's just hard i'm beginning to lose hope with the dating scene, i've been told i'm pretty but i still have no one.

Anyway thanks again

Don't lose hope just yet, someone could be just around the corner. I'm also fed up with the dating game.

I would not give him the satisfaction of texting him again.

You need to find someone new and you won't be long forgetting about him. It's hard to forget about someone you really like until you have someone new.

I'm in a similar boat to you and it's horrible feeling rejected but on to the next.....

Missy Moo Moo

Sorry to hear that OP

Whatever you do, don't text- you're only giving him the opportunity to reject you again. Either one of two things will happen/

1. He won't text back, leaving you feeling rejected, frustrated, etc and worse off than before.

2. He'll text back but it will be out of politeness, you'll text back and then the contact will eventually stop, leaving you feeling rejected, frustrated, as above.

You'll regret it, I promise you, so delete that number and forget about him! Remember, there's plenty of guys who will have the manners to not just leave you hanging.

LegacyUser

Missy Moo Moo wrote: »

Sorry to hear that OP

Whatever you do, don't text- you're only giving him the opportunity to reject you again. Either one of two things will happen/

1. He won't text back, leaving you feeling rejected, frustrated, etc and worse off than before.

2. He'll text back but it will be out of politeness, you'll text back and then the contact will eventually stop, leaving you feeling rejected, frustrated, as above.

You'll regret it, I promise you, so delete that number and forget about him! Remember, there's plenty of guys who will have the manners to not just leave you hanging.

Op here again, thanks missy moo moo for your advice, i've decided not to text him i'm not going to waste my time on a man that has no interest.

I do feel alot better today,onwards and upwards.

Thanks all

MsAllybear

hugs to you!!