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  • 10-01-2012 12:02am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Never heard of that before I was thinking it on the way home then saw this, strange.

    my life is a prison, I do clubs, hobbies, in the course I'm supposed to love in school Itold myself ifi moved out and got into this course my life would be perfect, then college didnt go well family, health, money issues then i told myself if I just got my own place that was mine and stabile Id be happy.. I did and I'm not, when im in college id be happy if I were on holidays when im on holidays im miserable cant function without routine horrible circle, now im telling myself when i graduate i will be free and happy, or when i get a job, travel, kids.. all outside things.

    But what is making me feel like this is not having a group of friends, no one to call round to or go into town with, head round to their house and gossip of watch telly I just can't seem
    to find a group of friends where I belong, no matter how hard life gets i look after myself but im still lonely, bored, alone, nothing to look forward to, doing things on my own is getting me down and im a woman in my early 20s i feel like im throwing these years away and i have no control over it.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    OP,

    Given you your own thread so you can get advice pertinent to you and the thread other posters start are relevant to.

    All the best.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 261 ✭✭niamhx


    Sorry your feeling like this :( Have you tried www.meet.com ? I haven't tried it myself but know someone that has, their very new to it so haven't met any friends yet, hopefully that will change for them too.

    Only advice I have is to get out there, get involved in anything that you enjoy doing. I met my best friend online, 5 years later I couldn't imagine my life without her.

    Good luck, Niamh


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 152 ✭✭fluffybiscuits


    I have met my friends through college, current job, past jobs, following saint pats, salsa classes, facebook, travelling, the gay scene etc etc. Throw yourself into a few activities and focus on making one or two friends at a time and before you know it you will have a network . :)

    Good luck :)


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