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Opinion Needed!????

  • 05-01-2012 10:02pm
    #1
    blue skye
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 ✭


    Ok I have been seperated a year and half - Was 19 when I ment my ex husband so I haven't had a lot of 'dating' expeniance! Met a chat on a night out in Sept who I liked & texted a fair bit until I got the message he wasn't gonna text me back :(

    Fast ward to Xmas day when I got a text from him in the early hour's with the message 'X' As I had deleted his number I didn't know who it was but when I looked back on my call log I discovered who it was.

    Have to say I was over the moon but I really have mixed feeling's about it as I think it could just be a booty call?????????

    Have text each other a few times in the past week (me more than him!) told him I'll be in town tomorrow night but still thinking I might just be a last resort!!!!!??????:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:


Comments

  • #2
    nowyouresix
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭nowyouresix


    Sorry to say it sounds to me like a booty call. You're making more of an effort than him again. If I were you I wouldn't waste my precious time.


  • #3
    Neyite
    Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,948 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    I would consider it a booty call - no contact in 3 months then a text after the club/pub? Thats what I'd be calling it.


  • #4
    Kevin Duffy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    Is he the first bloke to pay you attention since you split with your husband? I would guess so and say that's why you're giving him far more attention than he deserves. Ignore him, there are fellas out there who'll give you far more respect than this muppet who thinks he can call when he pleases. Get out and make up for the dating experience you missed out on, kiss a few frogs and have a few laughs, don't sit at home waiting for the likes of this guy.


  • #5
    blue skye
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 ✭blue skye


    Well actually I've have a few internet dates but nothing really come of them other than casual sex - he did make me laugh & we did get on so well ( In my opinoin) that's what I don't really get?????

    If I look at it I would say feck it he's using me BUT then I think maybe I should give it a chance - maybe he's shy, reluctant......... I have told him in the 1st few text's that I don't want a full on relaionship but just want a very casual no strings arrangement. Maybe he was up for / looking for more?????


  • #6
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,903 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    If you told him that you wanted casual no strings attached, he now thinks you are his F buddy.

    Because, basically that's what you told him you wanted!


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