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What's wrong with me?

LegacyUser · 2012-01-04 16:17:13

Im a 35 yo woman. I have dated a lot of guys but never really built up any long term stable relationship with any men. I found it hard to meet guy with mutual interest. Recently, I met a guy that I felt the connection and attraction. The feelings are recipricol! At first I was really happy, but when he tries to get closer,…

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Im a 35 yo woman. I have dated a lot of guys but never really built up any long term stable relationship with any men. I found it hard to meet guy with mutual interest. Recently, I met a guy that I felt the connection and attraction. The feelings are recipricol! At first I was really happy, but when he tries to get closer, I feel the urge to withdraw. We kissed but I did not feel very strong with our first kiss. But well, I always don't feel very strong with the first kiss with anyone, it's the antipation that is always more seducing to me! I dont feel head over heel towards a guy that quickly, and while my feelings start develop, they would then lose their interest! I dont know this guy well yet, but the familiar feelings come again that when he pushes me, I would wanna withdraw. I affirm him that I like him and feel that spark. He affirms me that he does not take things casual (which is what I want) but also tells me that he wants a woman who knows what she wants. I always think I know what I want, but when the chance comes, I would be scared a bit and don't wanna jump in that quick. What's wrong with me? Is it that I haven't yet met the right one or it's just that I think too much? I really wanna try to build up something long term and mature now at this age instead of putting the effort looking around for the right one but seem that something in me hinder me and it makes me challenge myself whether I am ready...

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