A question for the girls here

hoorsmelt

I've had a girlfriend for the last two months, and so far the sex is fantastic, but I've been trying to raise a particular act with my new girlfriend and she's not intereted so far. How can I make her interested

Ickle Magoo

Hey there hoorsmelt,

This is the forum for all requests for advice regarding relationship issues. :cool:

LovelyLottie

Why would you want to make a girl do something she's not interested in doing? Actually, don't answer that.

Elmidena

You can't; you shouldn't be able to coerce someone into your fetish if they're not comfortable, but mention it a couple of times over the next few weeks. You don't know her that long, and you don't want to scare her off or feel repulsed/intimidated etc. At the end of the day sex is meant to be enjoyable for you both, and if it comes down to a particular act or a particular person, that's your choice to make. It's not right to force her into it, or make her feel pressurised. See how it goes, you never know, if you haven't said it in a while and she's been thinking on her own about it she might get interested....but don't rely on it all the same. Merry Christmas

Da Shins Kelly

If she's not interested, she's not interested.

Arianna_26

You mean how can you persuade her to do something she doesn't want to?

You can't and if you respect her you won't try to.

allovertheshop

you've only been with this girl for 2 months, sometimes it can take a person a while to be relaxed and feel that they know you well enough before they feel comfortable enough to start experimenting...especially if it's something that they've not done before. If it is a case that she's never done it before, she might feel embarressed that she's not doing it right etc.
The main thing is that you have to give her time to decide whether she wants to do it, and not force her into doing something that she doesn't want to do. You never know, as you get to know each other better, you might find out that she has a few things that she'd like you to try too

Novella

You can't make someone interested in anything. A person is either interested, or they're not. Tbh, if I told a guy I didn't want to try something in bed and he wouldn't accept it and leave it at that, I'd find it seriously off-putting.

x Purple Pawprints x

You can't make your girlfriend do something she's not interested in. If she's not interested, she's not interested and if you respect her you'll leave it at. Put it this way, if the situation was reversed how would you feel? Personally if my boyfriend kept trying to make me do something I didn't want to do, I'd be very put off to be honest.

Kevin Duffy

hoorsmelt wrote: »

I've had a girlfriend for the last two months, and so far the sex is fantastic, but I've been trying to raise a particular act with my new girlfriend and she's not intereted so far. How can I make her interested

Maybe take the hint before that changes for the worse.

Maple

OP hasn't been back to this thread in a week therefore I am closing it.

Maple