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What to do?

  • 12-12-2011 11:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, I am just looking for some advice or opinions on what to do when you run into an ex. It being xmas and all, I know I am bound to run into her and her new fella. The relationship ended very badly and I went to bits over it, I was reading a personal issue from a guy on this that he got dumped by text, well I did too, only she did it after xmas when she had gotten gifts from me, she supposedly had no money so I said it was cool she did'nt need to get me anything.

    So dumped by text a few days after xmas feeling utterly used and like a piece of siht, I have not spoken to her at all. I get 'updates' about goings on in her life through friends whom I have fallen out with over telling me this stuff, I don't wanna know!

    Question is how do I react when I see her, I have managed to avoid seeing her apart from once when I nearly died, honestly thought I was going to have a heart attack, thats how bad I got.


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  • #2
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Ideally, you can make quick chit-chat (of the old work-colleague variety), and go your way.

    As it was a bad ending, and you still seem emotionally entangled, I'd essentially just blank her. Or just a quick acknowledgement (i.e. a nod/a quick curt smile) and continue on your way. I wouldn't even try and make conversation, as it's just going to get you worked up.

    If she tries to make conversation you can just say something like "I don't think we're on speaking terms, sorry." or "I don't really want to talk with you, sorry."


  • #3
    EGAR
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,874 ✭✭✭EGAR


    To be absolutely honest, if someone had done that to me, I would completely block them out and ignore them.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Op just walk away and dont even bother.

    She dumped you in a horrible way and you have to acknowledge that if she was able to be so easy going in dumping you, that she is not worth the worry.

    Best way to et over her is to ignore her and move on, blank her from your life and just have fun.

    If your out and she tries to talk or contact you, be nice but just walk away when you can and have fun.

    You will pull through man,

    Hope you do.


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