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Advice on the end of a relationship, not the beginning :(

  • 07-12-2011 12:08pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭


    Hey. Just a query, nothing too serious at all.

    If you went out with someone you liked for about a month. Then they dumped you, fairly amicably tbf. Then ye didn’t talk for the next month, just cause there was no need to, then on facebook you saw today was their birthday… would you send them a text wishing them a happy birthday or would you just leave it. Does texting them make you look more or less needy?

    Thanks in advance :)


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31 gem81


    If it was all very amicable. I don't think it looks needy at all. I would wish them a happy birthday.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,145 ✭✭✭Katgurl


    God yeah I have loads of friends that I dated once but it didn't go anywhere. Totally normal to send happy bday


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    It looks needy. Why bother?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭oxygen


    Cheers I_am_a_friend. This is kinda what I was thinking about this too.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Why is he even one of your Facebook friends?
    You're still pining for him.
    Unfriend him and get on with your life.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭oxygen


    This is a bit embarrassing. I'm a guy, it was a girl whos birthday it was. I guess oxygen_temp must sound like a girly user name. Or else my carry on is girly.

    I do miss her, I liked her. I guess as per the advice above, its time to unfriend her and get on with my life.
    Thanks for the concern\advice.


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