Does it matter?

harrythehat

Following on from the escorts thread, I'm wondering does it matter to you how many people your partner has slept with? Do you tell the truth when you're asked? Does it change your opinion of a person?

biko

Why do you ask how many people your partner have slept with?
If you ask, it matters apparently.

kayotic18

well, telling the truth means you won't get caught out telling a lie

Penn

"My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"
"In a row?"

Sykk

It doesn't matter.

But I'm a jealous fecker and I know it'd only upset me due to my childishness. I know that it means nothing but I'd think about it nontheless..

Do what I do! Don't ask, you will not be happy with whatever answer she/he gives. It's as bad if they say 1, 10 or 50.

working fool

Penn wrote: »

"My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"
"In a row?"

I was wondering where my ex wife went to !
Don't let her borrow ur credit card . :-)

Frank Black

Doesn't ever really cross my mind, we've been together for nearly 15years, so it's the distant past.
I've never asked her and she's never asked me - personally I think it's irrelevant and I don't think it's any of my business anyway.

CardBordWindow

Have you had sex before?

......because you're terrible in the sack!

stargazer 68

Do I ask? No - I dont want to know
Do I tell the truth? - No its none of your business!

candy-gal1

wouldnt really matter to me, asking or being asked, whatever number it is isnt going to bother me, once they were honest with me and they were
"safe" tbh

Duggy747

My GF has been with more people than me but still gets raging jealous whenever I mention anything about one of my ex-girlfriends....

...which I love to do for shìts and giggles :pac:

Anyways, the number wouldn't bother me as long as they weren't a walking disease bag of STIs and warts.

starbelgrade

Ask your girlfriend how many lovers she's had.

Multiply that by an average of 40 sex sessions per partner.

Multiply the answer by 200 for the average number of times a cock goes in & out in a sex session.

Then multiply that answer by 6 inches andmultiply by two to find out the length of cock she's had in feet:

Eg.: Mary has 14 lovers, so that's

14 x 40 = 560
560 x 200 = 112,000
112,000 x 6 x 2 = 1,344,000

So that means that Mary has taken just over 1 million feet of cock before yours.

That's a mere 254 miles of todger - so you see, when you look at it mathematically, it really doesn't matter.

sReq | uTeK

as long as they love you and are faithful to you then who cares how many x and y they've slept with?

pragmatic1

It doesnt matter unless they tell you one of their old partners was good in bed. Then it matters a lot.

Chuck Stone

As long as they lie and say it's a reasonable number like 3 then I wouldn't be bothered at all how many partners she'd had as long as it was no more than 3 or 4.

Yep.

Ray Palmer

It matters when your partner admits doing lots of kinky stuff and then refuses to do it with you

starbelgrade

Chuck Stone wrote: »

As long as they lie and say it's a reasonable number like 3 then I wouldn't be bothered at all how many partners she'd had as long as it was no more than 3 or 4.

Yep.

3 or 4?

Fucking hell. You could do more than that over the course of a good weekend festival.

Frank Black

sReq | uTeK wrote: »

as long as they love you and are faithful to you then who cares how many x and y they've slept with?

As long as they've not gone all the way to 'z' - I'm fine.

AnonoBoy

It's the holding hands and the pet names that really bug me.

"You called him WHAT? Snookie-bums????? You f*ckin' disgust me!" :mad:

stargazer 68

starbelgrade wrote: »

3 or 4?

Fucking hell. You could do more than that over the course of a good weekend festival.

SLUT!

stupidusername

I'd ask because i'm curious not because it'd matter. Though if it was a ridiculously high number i'd probably want to know more.

And no I wouldn't have any problem telling my number

Wibbs

The number doesn't matter, IMHO it's how and why the number was reached. IE woman A* has slept with 40 men, mostly one nighters between relationships and all on her own terms as she likes sex. Woman B has slept with 10 men, some decidely unsuitable that she regrets, isn't that pushed with sex and mostly uses it in exchange for some internal emotional longing or ego boostw. I'll take woman A please Carol.

Conall Cernach

pragmatic1 wrote: »

It doesnt matter unless they tell you one of their old partners was good in bed. Then it matters a lot.

Or if the ex "used to like it when I did that". Then you're pretty certain to never getting "that" ever again.

starbelgrade

Wibbs wrote: »

The number doesn't matter, IMHO it's how and why the number was reached. IE woman A* has slept with 40 men, mostly one nighters between relationships and all on her own terms as she likes sex. Woman B has slept with 10 men, some decidely unsuitable that she regrets, isn't that pushed with sex and mostly uses it in exchange for some internal emotional longing or ego boostw. I'll take woman A please Carol.

Hmm. I need to do the calculations on that one...

Woman A

30 x 1 night stands = 30
30 x 200 = 6000
6000 x 6 x 2 = 72,000

10 longer term relationships x 40 sex sessions = 400
400 x 200 = 80,000
80,000 x 6 x 2 = 960,000

960,000 + 72,000 = 1,032,000 foot of cock

Woman B

10 x 40 = 400
400 x 200 = 80,000
80,000 x 6 x 2 = 960,000 foot of cock



While woman A might seem like a bit of a slut, there's only 72,000 foot of cock in the difference which is negligible considering both have had around a million foot of mickey.

Plus she's not damaged.

So, yeah.. you're right Wibbs - Woman A is the one to go for & the calculations back that up.

stupidusername

So is what you're saying is in general the amount of men a woman has had sex with?

Azureus

I like to know but Im not overly fussed-as in I'd like to know if the person Im with has had **** loads of one night stands. We live in Ireland-its a small country. If they have had a load of one night stands you're gonna see women hes slept with everywhere! Awkward.
Avoid if possible. I like the non man-sluts.

DColeman

What happens if she said 0?

Would virgins be a bit strange to date for most people if they were in their mid-twenties? (I'm not one btw but I dated a girl who was a virgin at 24 and thought it would be weird if I told anyone!).

Logical Fallacy

starbelgrade wrote: »

Ask your girlfriend how many lovers she's had.

Multiply that by an average of 40 sex sessions per partner.

Multiply the answer by 200 for the average number of times a cock goes in & out in a sex session.

Then multiply that answer by 6 inches andmultiply by two to find out the length of cock she's had in feet:

Eg.: Mary has 14 lovers, so that's

14 x 40 = 560
560 x 200 = 112,000
112,000 x 6 x 2 = 1,344,000

So that means that Mary has taken just over 1 million feet of cock before yours.

That's a mere 254 miles of todger - so you see, when you look at it mathematically, it really doesn't matter.

Surely it's divide by 2 to find out how many feet of cock she's had as it's 12 inches in a foot? By multiplying by 2 you are just giving Mary more credit than she deserves as a cock-takist.