Meeting Someone New

jayo76

Have posted here before and got some really good advice about getting over my engagement which ended last year and i guess looking for advice again. Engagement ended last October after having been together 7 years and since then other than a couple of short lived flings i have been single. Of late i suppose i have started to convince myself i will never find someone special again.

I am a very positive guy in general and have got over the relationship breakup with my ex even though her ending things hurt a lot, i have got out and socialised, joined new clubs gone on holidays and seen a bit of the world. I am genuinely happy in my life and do know i am a good person, know i have so much love and care to give but have really started to worry that I will end up alone. I am 34, majority of my friends are married.

Have loads of female friends and am constantly getting the advice that i will be snapped up in no time or asked have i met anyone yet but despite being very sociable and chatty i can be a little shy when i meet people first and guess i have become a little nervous of actually asking girls out, always seem to convince myself that women see me just as a friend, someone who is really nice but maybe too nice. I have been told i am very cute but i am only 5 foot 5 and have low self esteem around this as i know it is a turn off naturally for so many ladies.

I dunno i guess in general i just am a little confused and downbeat and looking for some advice as to how best to gey myselt out there to meet someone new again.

Thanks, Jayo

Bodhidharma

You said you have lots of female friends. Ask them to set you up. Its no problem and women love doing things like that anyway.

As regards your height, and I dont mean to be clever or anything, but maybe find a woman shorter than you. I'm sure there are plenty of women looking to meet a nice guy.

Also the net might be good if you find it hard to approach.

Good luck