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Might he still like me?

  • 02-11-2011 2:30pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    A really nice, shy guy used to like me when we were in school. I liked him back but I~ never did anything about it because I was too shy back then. I hadn't seen him since I left school but recently I joined a club and he happens to be a member!

    We are both in our early twentys now and things have changed quite a bit... I now have a daughter but with no father in the picture.

    The thing is I still like this guy and I think he still might like me as well but we are both still shy! We always make eye contact at the club and he always smiles at me and vice vera. He came over and struck up a conversation with me twice during the last few club meetups and even asked if a needed a lift home. He lives in the total opposite direction to me!

    I am very shy and sometimes I'm afraid that I seem like a snob to others! I look very high maintenance as well and I have heard that this can seem intimidating and put a guy off! Also the issue of having a child may turn him off???

    Does it sound as if he still likes me? How do I get to know him better?


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  • #2
    Katgurl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,145 ✭✭✭Katgurl


    Next time go talk to him. Don't be nervous about sounding boring or stupid, ask him how he is, is he enjoying the club etc. If he offers you a lift home say yes and then tell him "I'd invite you in for a coffee but my daughter is asleep." if you're feeling brave add "you'll have to let me buy you coffee / drink to say thank you for lift". If he says great and looks keen offer to give him your number. Then huge big smile and a goodnight.


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