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Whats wrong with going to the cinema on your own?

  • 21-10-2011 6:25pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 318 ✭✭Kaneda_


    I want to go and see Parnormal Activity 3,but i have no one to go with.I told a few people im going to see it and they asked with who and i replyed with no one im going on my own.

    I often go on my own.Do you?

    Will i spot another person sitting on the lonesome tonight?


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    When I was single, I used to all the time.
    Still would of the other half wasn't interested in a film.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    I like going on my own, I wouldn't do it on a Friday night though! Too many people about, and I hate people.

    Sunday and weekday mornings ftw.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 236 ✭✭dominiquecruz


    Meh. I prefer going on my own.




    ...*forever alone*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Nothing's wrong with it - apart from in the minds of teenagers who require being part of a pack at all times.

    You don't converse during it, therefore you don't need company - not that there's anything wrong with having company either, but nothing makes it a pre-requisite.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    It has been over 3 years since I went to the cinema with another person.

    (Seriously)


    I win.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Red Hand wrote: »
    It has been over 3 years since I went to the cinema with another person.
    (Seriously)
    I win.

    I was single at one stage for over 5 years (after a divorce).
    Went all the time then on my own. Didn't bother me a bit. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,575 ✭✭✭✭A Dub in Glasgo


    There is absolutely nothing wrong with going to a Cinema on your own


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,370 ✭✭✭Knasher


    I wouldn't do it on a Friday night though! Too many people about, and I hate people.
    I know how you feel. I tried starting a club once so we wouldn't be considered so unusual any more, but nobody turned up because they they didn't like anyone there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    Biggins wrote: »
    I was single at one stage for over 5 years (after a divorce).
    Went all the time then on my own. Didn't bother me a bit. :)

    It's easy to get a seat, that's for sure. People at the edge of groups don't like their group touching the end of another group...kind of like an exclusion zone of one seat surrounding couple/group. Handy for me.

    I kind of like being a buffer.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,756 ✭✭✭InkSlinger67


    I don't mind going to the cinema own my own. The only way I could see anyone having a problem with this is if you started having sex on your own in the middle of the cinema

    *shudder*


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,540 ✭✭✭Giselle


    Red Hand wrote: »
    It has been over 3 years since I went to the cinema with another person.

    (Seriously)


    I win.

    You do win. Whenever I really want to see something and I'm with someone, somehow they manage to ruin it.

    I also find eating in the cinema really annoying, another reason to go alone because other peoples cinema experience isn't complete without gulping vats of coke or munching something that smells.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 12,333 ✭✭✭✭JONJO THE MISER


    I used to often go on my own.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,152 ✭✭✭✭KERSPLAT!


    I've never gone on my own but I probably would if I really wanted to see a film


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,006 ✭✭✭MistyCheese


    There's nothing wrong with going to the cinema alone. What's wrong is going to see Paranormal Activity 3. ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    There's nothing wrong with going to the cinema alone. What's wrong is going to see Paranormal Activity 3. ;)

    I saw The Descent on my own, was the only person in the screen too, that was fun...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,973 ✭✭✭SafeSurfer


    Perfectly normal to go to the cinema on your own. Especially if you like to watch a film in silence.

    Multo autem ad rem magis pertinet quallis tibi vide aris quam allis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 770 ✭✭✭sgb


    Better to go on your own, if you take the kids it cost's a fortune


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 318 ✭✭Kaneda_


    There's nothing wrong with going to the cinema alone. What's wrong is going to see Paranormal Activity 3. ;)

    Ok ok ok.

    PA 1 and 2 wernt the greatest movies but hey,they were entertaining,in the same way Celebrity jungle is entertaining.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    There's nothing wrong with going to the cinema alone. What's wrong is going to see Paranormal Activity 3. ;)

    Went to see that this evening and was totally alone in the cinema...until two girls came and started laughing and rustling their stuff throughout the film.

    It didn't stop the film from being sh*te, though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 427 ✭✭scotty_irish


    its not like youre chatting in the film. also no one to scab your chocolate m&ms.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭Redrocket


    its quite normal in Germany, they're not as stuck up, or pass remarkable, or self conscious as the Irish


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Redrocket wrote: »
    its quite normal in Germany, they're not as stuck up, or pass remarkable, or self conscious as the Irish


    Wow, good for Germany....



    I always do it. I often go with my girlfriend and go and see different films too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 redcortina


    yes, perfectly normal to go on your own. Especially during the day. Wouldnt really do it on a friday night tho.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Redrocket wrote: »
    its quite normal in Germany, they're not as stuck up, or pass remarkable, or self conscious as the Irish
    What nationality are you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Redrocket wrote: »
    its quite normal in Germany, they're not as stuck up, or pass remarkable, or self conscious as the Irish

    Sounds like utopia.....
    Do you think they are following a Master plan?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,862 ✭✭✭✭inforfun


    You are there to see a movie. That activity doesnt need company.
    When at home you are not going to call people to come over when you stick a dvd in the dvd player either.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 287 ✭✭JohnnyTodd


    I always go on my own. My missus refuses to let me masturbate when accompanied.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,075 ✭✭✭IamtheWalrus


    Doesn't bother me going on my own. If I had to organise friends to go with me I'd end up missing lots of films. I went to We need to talk about Kevin last night on my own.

    I would, however, reconsider going to the cinema at all in future. I've come to the conclusion that the cinema is an idiot magnet. Things that irked me:

    1. Being fed adverts at the start. I (stupidly) arrived at 8.58 for the 9 film. It started at 9.30. Excessive I thought.
    2. Idiots laughing at ads that they wouldn't laugh at at home (maybe they would, point still stands).
    3. Popcorn and the need to eat during the film. I think the people who need to eat during the film aren't interested if the film is any good. They're happy as long as they get a feed out of it.
    4. Talkers: a couple across the way from me last night decided to watch their mobile for the majority of the film. The light was distracting. On top of that, they talked through most of it too. Mumbling away. Then as the film ended, the fella made a bee-line for the door. Why wait?? He wasn't enjoying it and she didn't seem to be watching either.

    In conclusion, I won't be returning unless there is something on that wouldn't be as good on a small screen.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Damian Rhythmic Corner


    nothing at all, I go on my own the odd time


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    jumbo bucket of popcorn all to yourself


    get in!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,940 ✭✭✭4leto


    I go on my own all the time, I never even bother to even ask around if someone else would like to go as well. I never feel odd or out of place, but sometimes when I come out I feel it would be nice to talk to someone about the film.

    I went to see Real Steal last night on my own.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I do it the odd time. I always feel like a bit of a sad b@stard though when I'm purchasing my ticket for one at the desk.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,992 ✭✭✭✭gurramok


    I do it too at times, i don't give a flying feck what people in the cinema think. Chances are you'd never see them again. You paid your ticket and enjoy the film, don't let the begrudgers get you down.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,511 ✭✭✭saywhatyousee


    I would never go and to see a film by myself.I would just feel weird typing it now it seem's a bit sad but that is just the way i am.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    I'd have no problem going alone, but the situation just never arises. I can always find someone who wants to go with me.

    My 24 year old brother wants me to see Paranormal Activity 3 with him because he's a big wimp who gets scared at all these type of films.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,753 ✭✭✭qz


    Some of the best film experiences I've had have been when I went to see them on my own. You don't go to the cinema to talk to other people (if you do, you should be shot in the face). It'd be nice to mull it over with someone afterwards but if there's no one there that wants to watch it then so be it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 469 ✭✭geetar


    i wouldnt go on my own, not because its wierd, but because its a waste of money.

    the way i see it, if youre not meeting up with mates, save yourself a tenner and download and watch the movie at home.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,201 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    I go on my own regularly. While waiting outside you can look for other losers to sit with.

    It's a good way to meet partners and wives. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,124 ✭✭✭wolfpawnat


    I go by myself, going with others can actually be crap, you can't talk during the film anyway. I hate going with people who don't fully want to be there, they sigh and make stupid comments. You don't have to share your food with them. And there is no debate about what you are going to see, you go to whatever you want to go to, it is great :D

    I haven't went to the cinema a lot in recent years but it always been by myself, I wouldn't be able to go with another person now!!!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 592 ✭✭✭kieranfitz


    In truth nothing, still feel like a tit doing it though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 519 ✭✭✭flyaway.


    I prefer going on my own because that way I have nobody turning to me every 5 minutes saying ''Did you see that?'' or ''What's going to happen next?''


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,692 ✭✭✭✭OPENROAD


    Nowt wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 415 ✭✭shampoosuicide


    nothing wrong with it, no. wouldn't really see it as 'winning' either, though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    Redrocket wrote: »
    its quite normal in Germany, they're not as stuck up, or pass remarkable, or self conscious as the Irish


    **** the Germans, we'll be pass remarkable as we like!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,607 ✭✭✭✭DrPhilG


    I bloody hate the cinema. Well not the cinema as such, but the annoying sods in it.

    That said, I have no issue going by myself, although preferably not to a film with any sex scenes, otherwise you just look a bit pervy.

    I went to see Hostel by myself and the first 10 minutes are constant nudity and sex scenes. Sitting alone in the 2nd row, I felt a bit self conscious. I felt the need to keep both hands in sight at all times... :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,797 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    I go on my own all the time.
    BUT.....

    I wouldn't dream of going to a horror movie on my own!!! :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    I havent ever done it but I'm thinking about doing it as I work shifts and I find myself bored during the days.

    Nothing wrong with it really though such a social stigma attached for some reason.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,547 ✭✭✭Agricola


    One of the minor annoyances of life is how our culture, or maybe American culture, has attached a connection between people going out romantically and cinema outings. For so many people, the idea of going to the cinema is nothing but a stepping stone on the path to getting the ride. So why the hell would you then go alone!?
    Either that or its a social outlet for marauding gangs of teenagers who are too young to go to the pub yet. People who actually go to the cinema to watch a film for the sake of watching the film are always in the minority.

    Nothing wrong with it at all. As you get older, you get over yourself and don't let it bother you. Just don't go at 9pm on Friday to avoid sitting in the middle of all the above!
    DrPhilG wrote: »
    I went to see Hostel by myself and the first 10 minutes are constant nudity and sex scenes. Sitting alone in the 2nd row, I felt a bit self conscious. I felt the need to keep both hands in sight at all times... :eek:

    If you felt like wánking off to Hostel, then you'd have more problems to worry about than just going to the cinema alone!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 395 ✭✭Simon Adebisi


    Nothing wrong with it. Its not a place for talking anyway. Ill often do it during the day if there somethin i woant to see on and no one else is up for it.


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