what to do

personaltrainer

ok so going to make this short....basically with my bf nearly two years and we get on great and i love him....but sometimes i dont know what he want. he never texts me first doesnt tell me he loves me unless i say it first doesnt like to cuddle ect and i feel this is only in the last month or so. also he never leaves comments on my facebook but does on other girlls pages calling them babe ect. when i ask him he says im over reacting............am i????

sarahbro

Seems that you're more invested in the relationship than he is.
Don't text, call or Facebook him. Wait and see how long it takes for him to come running. If he doesn't than you know he's not worth it.
Good luck x

personaltrainer

should have said we do live together...but we both work shift work and can go for like 3 days without even seeing each other... i work days he works nights..

I am a friend

Was he always like this? How did you end up living with him if he was?

personaltrainer

as i said in the first post this is only in the last month....we've been living together bout 7 month and starting to feel he's getting bored of me:(

ElleEm

Has anything else changed in the last month that you think has triggered his behaviour?

If you are together two years and live together, then you should both be at the stage where you openly discuss things, and not rely on Facebook and texting to be the basis of your contact. I never write on my partner's Facebook page as we live together and don't need to- as we TALK to each other.

Speak to your boyfriend about it.Only he can tell you why he acts the way he does.

I am a friend

Oh yeah one month...

Talk to him

ElvisP

Grow up

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