Refused from niteclub

James__10

Not too sure whether this is the write place to put this but anyway, Their is a niteclub in my local town (would rather not say where tbh ) that I can't get into. It all stems back from basically my stupidity. I got drunk in their a few times slipped down a few stairs, spilled a few drinks etc and got thrown out by bouncers 2 times. Last Monday(5th) I was allowed entry into the nightclub because the main bouncer who always refuses me was not on but Monday gone by I was refused entry and was told " I can't let you in tonight" and repeatly "not tonight". Now i'm aware of ROAR but it has gone beyond a joke now a few of my mates who were overly drunk walked right past whilst I was refused for nothing. I was not drunk btw. I couldn't have been refused for my dress code and I have never started any rows inside the establishment.

So, What would be my best bet of getting back into the club? A written apology maybe?

Victor

Apology + stay sober.

Wolfe Tone

Just go somewhere else, when bouncers get it into their heads to refuse you they don't tend to back down, don't be humiliating yourself begging to be allowed back in.

But in fairness you have form of acting the mick.

I'm banned from one place for the grand crime of getting assaulted by a bouncer and reporting it to the Garda, sure nightclubs suck anyway.

podgie.

Wolfe Tone wrote: »

I'm banned from one place for the grand crime of getting assaulted by a bouncer and reporting it to the Garda

me too,,

Contra Proferentem

I imagine they can refuse you under their conditions of entry, the same thing which allows that they can search you once you consent or else you can't enter.

Kosseegan

Get some celebrity and or some good looking girls, the type of people the club wants to attract. Go to the club with them. You approach first. When you are refused arrange for them all to turn around and walk off. Keep this up for a weeek or two.

Delancey

Wolfe Tone wrote: »

Just go somewhere else, when bouncers get it into their heads to refuse you they don't tend to back down, don't be humiliating yourself begging to be allowed back in.

+ 1 . don't go grovelling to the bouncers to get back in - they'll exploit it at your expense and still probably refuse you entry.
Keep some pride !

Zambia

Having been a doorman some are complete idiots that think they own a club. Seeing it may be the only club in your town try this. Go in early one night or even during the day. Ask to speak to the manager and have a straight up conversation. Apologise in relation to previous behavior and ask can you start again.

MyKeyG

Delancey wrote: »

+ 1 . don't go grovelling to the bouncers to get back in - they'll exploit it at your expense and still probably refuse you entry.
Keep some pride !

Not to the bouncers, but to the management yes. He was kicked out TWICE, by his own admission, for getting drunk and being a nuisance. It's not grovelling when you apologise for being a messer it's just common decency. I would speak to the manager, explain the circumstances and apologise to him. What the bouncers chose to do beyond that is another thing.

I have a mate who's a decent lad sober but he's a wicked drunk. He's banned from half the pubs in town. Frankly I'm getting a bit sick and tired of looking guilty by association when he's turned away from the door. We're all supposed to have pity for people like this? I don't think so!

aacs

The OP should at the most meet with manager of the concerned club with surety of remaining sober in future if it is really that important to go there.