Someone please tell me I'm wrong...

scoll

I don't meant to, or want to sound vain in anyway, but I think one of my married work colleagues might "like" (?) me.

Went back to my part-time job (I'm in college) on Friday after 3 months away. Said hello to everyone and started my shift. One of the managers (the colleague in question) was sort of re-training me, and he said "I missed you, I really missed you". He said it again a while later.

Next thing, he asked me what perfume I was wearing, then told me that I smelt really nice. Started to get a bit freaked out but continued on as normal. We were then just chatting and out of nowhere when he said "You're amazing".

Later I was complaining about my over-sized man's shirt that I've to wear (I'm a girl) and he said "It looks good on you. It looks good on good looking girls. You'd look good in anything". I also thought that he was touching me a bit too much, like rubbing off my shoulder, reaching across me when there was no need, etc. This continued through to Saturday. Not in again until next weekend (thank god).

So AH's... What do you all think? Is he being inappropriate? I'd love if I was completely wrong!

Quazzie

You're wrong, you're hideous

El Guapo!

Stop being a tease!

Logical Fallacy

He doesn't like you, he just wants to sex you up.

Next time he compliments you just ask him how his wife is...watch the embarrassment burn him up.

krudler

sham marriage, he's clearly gay

phasers

Sue the pants off him.

Temptamperu

Screw him then black mail him simples.

hondasam

scoll wrote: »

So AH's... What do you all think? I'd love if I was completely wrong! After all, he IS married and has no reason to be liking other people!

Married people cannot like other people, what planet are you living on.

I'd say you are completely wrong.

Richard Dower

He's trying to slip you the sausage for sure!, try avoid him....you can be aloof and dismissive of him without being nasty, he'll get the hint.....or going into work looking like shiite for a week, he'll soon move on!

Teutorix

I just shivered from the pure creepyness in that post.

General General

scoll wrote: »

I don't meant to, or want to sound vain in anyway, but I think one of my married work colleagues might "like" (?) me.

Went back to my part-time job (I'm in college) on Friday after 3 months away. Said hello to everyone and started my shift. One of the managers (the colleague in question) was sort of re-training me, and he said "I missed you, I really missed you". He said it again a while later.

Next thing, he asked me what perfume I was wearing, then told me that I smelt really nice. Started to get a bit freaked out but continued on as normal. We were then just chatting and out of nowhere when he said "You're amazing".

Later I was complaining about my over-sized man's shirt that I've to wear (I'm a girl) and he said "It looks good on you. It looks good on good looking girls. You'd look good in anything". I also thought that he was touching me a bit too much, like rubbing off my shoulder, reaching across me when there was no need, etc. This continued through to Saturday. Not in again until next weekend (thank god).

So AH's... What do you all think? I'd love if I was completely wrong! After all, he IS married and has no reason to be liking other people!

Where did you come up with that big bottle of bullsh!t idea?

Celly Smunt

it'll mean more to him if you give him a ride compared to the shame you'll feel afterwards.

Barrt2

your wrong he only wants a ride :L

amdublin

You're wrong

Now, can I have a cookie please

KKkitty

He wants to get into your pants imo. Is he like this with anyone else???

orourkeda

pure prick teaser

Latchy

It's a set up ...for gawds sake , think of his poor wife and children .

scoll

Even the thoughts of him just wanting a ride. I HOPE WE'RE ALL WRONG

Richard Dower

Teutorix wrote: »

I just shivered from the pure creepyness in that post.

Aye...it was like Ezra from PLL all over again

amdublin

Btw what age are you?

You sound very young. Or else very immature.

scoll

KKkitty wrote: »

He wants to get into your pants imo. Is he like this with anyone else???

No

Icyseanfitz

maybe he took an E also how are you talking to him about your clothes? thats teasing if i ever heard of it

EarlERizer

Forbidden fruit!

amdublin

Latchy wrote: »

It's a set up OP ...for gawds sake , think of his poor wife and children .

Will somebody think of the children!!!

amdublin

Maybe he's drunk?

Op - does he small of alcohol?

scoll

Icyseanfitz wrote: »

maybe he took an E also how are you talking to him about your clothes? thats teasing if i ever heard of it

amdublin wrote: »

Maybe he's drunk?

Op - does he small of alcohol?

No, but he is always very hyper..

Jess16

These things actually happen in real life!?

My name is URL

Usually when someone says 'please tell me I'm wrong' they want people to do the opposite.

amdublin

Op, tell the full story,not just the half one so that we give you attention: are you flirting with him?

Now tell the truth please!

amdublin

My name is URL wrote: »

Usually when people say 'please tell me I'm wrong' they want people to do the opposite.

amdublin wrote: »

Op, tell the full story,not just the half one so that we give you attention: are you flirting with him?

Now tell the truth please!

Mhh hmmm. My thinking too URL. I'd say there's a whole lot more to this then we're being told :rolleyes:

Icyseanfitz

op get the roide

scoll

I'm really not flirting with him!. I got freaked out by his comments and started giving him a bit of the cold shoulder, leave me alone kinda vibe!

KKkitty

scoll wrote: »

No

Is there anyone who you can talk to in your workplace cos this is pure sexual harrassment. This man is behaving inappropriately towards you. Do something about cos you really don't know what he's like.:(

Teutorix

Sue the company for sexual harassment, make a tidy few bob.

gargleblaster

Jess16 wrote: »

These things actually happen in real life!?

All the time.

OP you are probably being genuinely nice and with his type you can't - if you're polite to this type he thinks you want him. Just smile very coldly and in the least genuine, most professional way you can, and avoid him like the plague.

scoll

KKkitty wrote: »

Is there anyone who you can talk to in your workplace cos this is pure sexual harrassment. This man is behaving inappropriately towards you. Do something about cos you really don't know what he's like.:(

Ah jaysus... I'd have to wait and see if anything else happens. Sounds a bit extreme!

Son Of A Vidic

scoll wrote: »

I'm really not flirting with him!

Which means you possibly might be then? I'm not as opposed to I'm not really, are two different things. So which one is it?

scoll

gargleblaster wrote: »

All the time.

OP you are probably being genuinely nice and with his type you can't - if you're polite to this type he thinks you want him. Just smile very coldly and in the least genuine, most professional way you can, and avoid him like the plague.

Thanks! I'll try this if he does anything else!

lecker Hendl

scoll wrote: »

Went back to my part-time job (I'm in college) on Friday after 3 months away. Said hello to everyone and started my shift.

and that your honour is when she molested me.

Richard Dower

Scoll....sorry sweetie, all you'll get here on AH is snark.

amdublin

scoll wrote: »

Ah jaysus... I'd have to wait and see if anything else happens. Sounds a bit extreme!

Well if it really is as you described in your all your posts....

scoll

Corvus Maximus wrote: »

Which means you possibly might be then? I'm not as opposed to I'm not really, are two different things. So which one is it?

NOooo. I didn't mean that as "I'm not really", I meant it as "I'm REALLY not flirting with him"...

Icyseanfitz

scoll wrote: »

Ah jaysus... I'd have to wait and see if anything else happens. Sounds a bit extreme!

, in all seriousness though if he keeps at it do report him, id tell you to tell him fcuk off but unfortunately he is your boss, can he get you fired?

scoll

amdublin wrote: »

Well if it really is as you described in your all your posts....

If anything else happens... I'll talk to someone!

gargleblaster

scoll wrote: »

Ah jaysus... I'd have to wait and see if anything else happens. Sounds a bit extreme!

It's actually a good idea to talk to someone. If his harassment escalates you will want documentation that you were made uncomfortable and did something about it.

Wolfe Tone

scoll wrote: »

Thanks! I'll try this if he does anything else!

Thats the worst advise ever.

You should just ride him tbh

Teutorix

Icyseanfitz wrote: »

, in all seriousness though if he keeps at it do report him, id tell you to tell him fcuk off but unfortunately he is your boss, can he get you fired?

Firing somebody for rejecting your come ons is illegal and the burden of proof is on the employer. Labour court here i come.

amdublin

gargleblaster wrote: »

It's actually a good idea to talk to someone. If his harassment escalates you will want documentation that you were made uncomfortable and did something about it.

You could always use this thread op.

scoll

amdublin wrote: »

You could always use this thread op.

Genius!

Wolfe Tone

gargleblaster wrote: »

It's actually a good idea to talk to someone. If his harassment escalates you will want documentation that you were made uncomfortable and did something about it.

If she wants to go down the harassment route then she has to tell him that his behavior is making her uncomfortable, makes no odds if she tells everyone else under the sun, its imperative that he knows and continues anyway if she wants money out of it, subtle hints rarely suffice.

hondasam

scoll wrote: »

I don't meant to, or want to sound vain in anyway, but I think one of my married work colleagues might "like" (?) me.

Went back to my part-time job (I'm in college) on Friday after 3 months away. Said hello to everyone and started my shift. One of the managers (the colleague in question) was sort of re-training me, and he said "I missed you, I really missed you". He said it again a while later.

Next thing, he asked me what perfume I was wearing, then told me that I smelt really nice. Started to get a bit freaked out but continued on as normal. We were then just chatting and out of nowhere when he said "You're amazing".

Later I was complaining about my over-sized man's shirt that I've to wear (I'm a girl) and he said "It looks good on you. It looks good on good looking girls. You'd look good in anything". I also thought that he was touching me a bit too much, like rubbing off my shoulder, reaching across me when there was no need, etc. This continued through to Saturday. Not in again until next weekend (thank god).

So AH's... What do you all think? I'd love if I was completely wrong! After all, he IS married and has no reason to be liking other people!

bet your sorry you started this thread now op.