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issheplayingme

  • 01-09-2011 8:56am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i am broke up nearly 4 months now,we were going out 2 years,we had a bit of a row nothing major but she left the next day after me telling her to move out if she wasnt happy.i had sensed things werent right with our relationship.

    We had been talking and then i told her how i felt about her and laid my feelings on the line to her,she just shrugged it off and said she wanted to be on her own for a while,she has been in and out of relationships for the past 10 years.

    i cut contact with her however she kept contacting me on facebook for general chatt and all,she then suggested we go to the cinema and we did but there was no mention of getting back together or anything,i have told her that i cant do things like that again or be in contact as i know that she doesnt feel the same about me and that i need to move on.

    she sent a message back to apologize for contact and has said that shed still like to be able to chat to me and i agreed but only if i met her face to face but no more contact thorugh facebook.she also added that she doesnt want to be in a realtionship with me or anyone else for that matter

    I would really like your feedback,i dont know why after i was moving on can i not get her out of my head again,

    is she looking for the best of both worlds,being able to have her chit chats with me while at the same time not wanting to commit to a relationship


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks for replying sunflower

    well for me now cutting contact is the only way.

    yeah well this has been my 1st serious relationship and think that is why im finding it harder to move her than she has,i dont like the way that she has given up on our relationship so easy but know i cant let that fester inside me


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    issheplayingme wrote: »
    is she looking for the best of both worlds,being able to have her chit chats with me while at the same time not wanting to commit to a relationship
    Absolutely - and this is the surest way to mess up your head and to stop you getting over her - whether this is her intent or not.

    Forget about the chats - she should use other friends / family for that - you need to work on getting yourself over her - and in my experience that has always been easiest with zero contact.


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