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Ex has remarried

  • 19-08-2011 7:36pm
    #1
    Chocchipcookie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10 ✭


    My ex hubby remarried recently. we broke up 4 yrs ago and he has now moved on - -married and has a child. I'm in a relationship but still renting, no sign of committment and i just feel like a loser. Anyone else feel like this?


Comments

  • #2
    Intox
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 141 ✭✭Intox


    Try not to see it as a competition to do better than each other. after all you's were divorced for a reason....to be out of each others lives.

    I dont mean to sound so blunt but worry about your own and get on with your own life.

    Good luck


  • #3
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I think you need to stop comparing. How and when they do things should have no bearing on you and your life or how happy and successful you view yourself - and if it does, perhaps you need to speak to someone about that because it does come across as you not being over the split.

    All the best.


  • #4
    Starokan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 746 ✭✭✭Starokan


    i think many people feel this way when an ex moves on and appears to be achieving more. The best thing you can do is try be happy for him and focus on your own relationship.

    Don't worry about the small stuff like renting, owning a home does not make a relationship any happier or better and for that matter neither does marriage.

    Focus on you and your partner and make your own plans and decisions.

    Your ex is your ex and what he does is immaterial now


  • #5
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    yea, so he has his path now, you have yours.

    you didnt want to be married to him anymore, someone else does want to be married to him.

    dont worry too much about how his life has gone, just enjoy your own!!

    stop comparing your life with his, just enjoy what you do have, independance, choices etc.

    you will be happy, you just have to believe it.


    oh, btw, i would love if i didnt own my house and i was back renting!!!


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