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Should i be worried about this?

  • 02-07-2011 5:05pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Last night me and my GF went out seperately with our own friends. We had planned on meeting up at some stage but I headed home around 2. She texted around half 1 saying she was drinking at a friends house and they were heading out. I went to bed thinking she'd be a couple of hours max. Anyway i woke up at 6 and still no sign of her and no message or calls. I sent a text to see if she was okay thinking maybe she had stayed at her friends and was asleep. There was no reply.
    I rang around 11 two or three times and there was no answer. A half hour later i rang and she answered, she was still drinking and had been partying all night. Fair enough, but a message would have been nice. Anyway i said this too her when she got back later and she denied ever receiving a message or calls, i said no there it is and went to go show it to her on the phone but i spotted a message for an unsaved number which had been sent around 12 saying "Hot Girl! want to see me tonight? xxx". She says she doesn't know who sent the message.
    I think she may have cheated on me with a stranger, I dunno. I trust her and its a bit out of character for her to do something like this, but then again when there's alcohol involved...she started crying and got all defensive saying she had done nothing wrong. She also refused to apologise for not texting or ringing me to let me know where she was. Cheers for any advice.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Demand she tell you the truth about the message or walk.

    I would not be happy about a message like that, you are owed an explanation.


  • #3
    amdublin
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    strezzed wrote: »
    I said no there it is and went to go show it to her on the phone but i spotted a message for an unsaved number which had been sent around 12 saying "Hot Girl! want to see me tonight? xxx". She says she doesn't know who sent the message.

    It seems very co incidental that she got this text and then she ends up staying out.

    How long are you together?


  • #4
    robman60
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    Sounds very suspicious to me. I think you should stand up for yourself and tell her you need to know the truth. This isn't a time to be passive.


  • #5
    qwerty13
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    strezzed wrote: »
    . A half hour later i rang and she answered, she was still drinking and had been partying all night.

    Unless this is something that she and her friends do fairly regularly, I'd be well suspicious. The only thing that makes me think that it might be innocent is the above quote - if she is still up and drunk, then I'd say no, she hasn't cheated ... or at least I can't imagine a situation were she'd head off with someone at end of the night (2:30/3 ish), and be up and about and drunk @ 11:30 - and would actually answer her phone - if something bad had happened. Could be a totally wrong take on it, but that's how I'd view it. And even if she is totally innocent, it's just not on to not even send a text.


  • #6
    dixiefly
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    dafadsf wrote: »
    Demand she tell you the truth about the message or walk. I would not be happy about a message like that, you are owed an explanation.

    Im have to agree with this.....she needs to fully explain the text. Not texting would also be an indication of a lack of courtesy & respect to you.


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