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obsessions

  • 28-06-2011 10:21am
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I'm a 21 year old girl. I'm generally pretty independent and confident in life, but for some reason I always like to have someone to obsess over. It's really weird... I was seeing a guy for a few months and the minute that ended I decided in my head to be obsessed with a boy I know, who I've know for ages and never really felt much for before! It's like I just want to replace one person in my head with another, and just like to have someone to fantasize about!

    My latest "obsession" is a guy from work. I think I subconsciously chose him because he came onto me a little bit a few months ago, but I was with someone else at the time so I ignored it. He's a nice guy and we get along great but now I find I'm acting like a freak suddenly analysing everything we say to each other! We're all going out for someone's birthday this weekend and I'm afraid I'll spend the night obsession over his every move! I never really come on to people and I'm not flirty at all so it's not like it's likely that I'll get with him... but for some reason I feel like if I don't, or if he gets with someone else, I'll be devistated!

    I feel so desperate! I'm not even really looking for a boyfriend... I'm pretty busy and have other priorities, but for some reason I just seem to like torturing myself! Anyone else ever do this?!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yes me! I agree its a bit weird alright and i've often wondered why i do it...!

    But i've been like that for ages (im 22 now) and im a happy gal so hopefully i dont have some weird issues going on haha. It's like craving attention which i dont really get tho coz i feel good about myself and would be fairly confident too so dont know why i would need this extra attention or whatever.

    Even when i've had boyfriends i would sometimes think about other guys from college or whatever (i'm aware that sounds bad but iv never cheated!)

    Anyways, your not the only one so hope that makes you feel better :)


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