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How hard to see her with somebody else

  • 14-06-2011 4:16pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I posted a while back about a breakup I had previously,

    6 weeks later and we met up today and totally finished it.

    I know the next thing will be hard is seeing her with sumbudy else.I myself dont want to get into a relationship for a while but if she does how do i cope with it,We are on very good terms i may add and she has said thatl shel find it hard to see me with sumbudy else


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  • #2
    Sinfonia
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    captive wrote: »
    I posted a while back about a breakup I had previously,

    6 weeks later and we met up today and totally finished it.

    I know the next thing will be hard is seeing her with sumbudy else.I myself dont want to get into a relationship for a while but if she does how do i cope with it,We are on very good terms i may add and she has said thatl shel find it hard to see me with sumbudy else

    I didn't see the previous thread, but as general advice (and from personal experience):
    It's not as hard as you'd think, even though you think it's going to be horrible.
    Now of course it depends how long it'll be before you see her with someone else, but as you each now pursue your own interests, and concentrate on your own lives (rather than each others), you'll find you think about her less and less, and the thought of her being with someone else becomes a lot easier. In a way, it can kind of be a good feeling, because (and I mean if she actually starts a relationship with someone) it definitely aids the feeling of closure.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    well i have woken 2day feeling good and dont care if she meets somebody else,i really hope she meets somebody nice cos she did bring me through a lot and she had a terrible few relationships before she met me and i know that her falimy worry about her a lot,

    but at the same time i hope its not somebody i know.just 2 add we had been going out for nearly 2 years,but i know i will tink about her less cos i have a lot of stuff going on,mortgage,car and a business that will keep me busy


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