Online girl - what you think?

LegacyUser

Hi folks,

Just want to keep this short.

"Met" a girl about a month or so ago online, and we've been chatting and getting on well.
She had no pics on her profile and we befriended on Facebook to see each other's pics. This was back when we met.

We were suitably impressed with each other's pics and we continued to exchange pics by MMS, as well as chatting a lot. The pics in both directons were quite graphic. We'd been getting on well, and we agreed to meet.

Anyway, we were supposed to meet last night, but that didn't happen, as she hadn't been feeling well. She had been telling me for a while that she had been feeling to well, but just told me 45 mins before we were supposed to meet me that she wouldn't actually be meeting.

We've still been chatting away the whole time via SMS, and we seemed to get on alright, bar the odd period of one or two letter responses. Almost coming to the period where I am thinking I'd be thinking she'd have met me by now if she was interested.

Anyway, that's the background, here's the question..

On the profile where we met, she has posted up some pics, 1 public, and 4 hidden. I have not seen the hidden pics. Am I right in thinking she is not interested in me if she is posting photos on a dating website prior to meeting me? I'm thinking that if she were interested, she would have been seeing what happens before putting herself out there.

Justask

Maybe she was feeling unwell!....Or maybe she go cold feet and felt very nervous. Which is ok IMO

If I was you I would ask her out for a coffee again and see what happens if she doesnt turn up this time or makes an excuse, i'd say bye :eek:

But give her another chance and dont read into things.

Best of luck

Forest Master

Yeah, I'd say try to meet once more - if she makes any excuses or backs out again, that's your cue to call it a day. But for now, give her the benefit of the doubt.

mikemac

Sounds like cold feet to me

As said, I'd try to arrange another meetup.
Now if she can't make it but proposes another time and day then happy days.

But if it's another excuse well I'd leave it be.

I am a friend

I am not sure about asking her out again... 45 minutes is a very short time to cancel a date and I am sure if she knew at 45 minutes before the date that she was sick, she knew at 1 hour 30 minutes before ... If you are in Dublin you would most likely have left home already to meet her.

I would let her ask you out if she is that interested. Thats only fair seeing as she cancelled plans so late in the day.

Justask

Everybody deserves a 2nd chance IMO