advice after date

LegacyUser

Im on an online dating site. Had a date on sunday. It went as well as it could of gone for a first meeting. Ended up at the of the night back in his hotel room cuddling. Nothing more.

Sent a message monday thanking him for a great time. He replied saying that he liked my message and it made him laugh and that he was busy and that he would reply later in more detail. That was monday and I have not heard from him since. Just feel some what rejected now and dont know what to do as in if I should reply to him or leave it.

Emme

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Im on an online dating site. Had a date on sunday. It went as well as it could of gone for a first meeting. Ended up at the of the night back in his hotel room cuddling. Nothing more.

Sent a message monday thanking him for a great time. He replied saying that he liked my message and it made him laugh and that he was busy and that he would reply later in more detail. That was monday and I have not heard from him since. Just feel some what rejected now and dont know what to do as in if I should reply to him or leave it.

Leave it. It's possible he wanted more than just a cuddle and was just being polite with his reply.

Unfortunately some men use internet dating sites to get laid even when they say they want a relationship. :rolleyes:

SATSUMA

i know it's hard but just delete his number to resist the temptation. Men know exactly what they want and if he was into you, you'd know about it.

Go on a date with someone else to cheer you up a bit...plenty more fish and all that.

Good luck xxx

Miss Fluff

You already told you him you enjoyed yourself so he knows your feelings on seeing him again. Ball is in his court although I wouldn't hold out much hope after three days tbh. Delete.

appleb

I wouldnt contact him but I also think that it is early days yet. 3 days is not a great delay in some peoples eyes:rolleyes:

LegacyUser

Thanks for the replies

I understand what its like to be busy and not getting the time to reply. I am the worst devil for that carry on. It could take me days to get back in touch with someone if not a week or two even. So I do understand on that front. I keep logging on in the hope of finding a message in my inbox from him but theres nothing even though he is logging on. He said he would reply later. He never did. Cluthing at strings I am I suppose.

I am a friend

Well if he has time to log on he has time to text...

Chances are he is dating as many people as possible... Its still likely that you hear from him but if it were me, the momentum would be lost and I would not be encouraging him.

Emme

Any guys I know who do online dating date as many women as possible, often in a conveyor belt fashion. They stop short at shouting "NEXT!!!" at the end of every date. They also tend to give the "better" options weekend dates and anything else gets a 30 minute coffee or brief drinks meeting during the week.

Forget this guy. He's probably looking to get laid and when you weren't giving him what he wanted he moved onto the next victim.

If he was into you he would have gotten back by now and arranged to meet up over the weekend. Sorry for being harsh, but you have to put him behind you. If you haven't deleted his number already delete it now.

Firetrap

If he genuinely wanted to see you again, he'd have texted or emailed by now. There are times when I don't reply to texts or emails straight away but if it was someone I fancied, I'd make it my business to do so.