Holding hands on the dancefloor

jameshealy19

Hi,
I just looking for a female opinion on something,
Its just on the area of holding hands.

I was in a nightclub last night, I was on the dancefloor a girl I kinda know,
I reached out to hold her hands, she complied, I put my fingers in between hers, again she complied.

I was just wondering in a situation like that is she showing interest? and is it relatively safe to go in for the kiss?

Cheers,
J

I am a friend

If there is drink involved it's impossible to know... Why not ask her if you can kiss her

jameshealy19

Asking to kiss? is that lame?

Ickle Magoo

If you know her then hand holding could be construed as friendly or flirty and not as a precursor to anything else. It's impossible for us to know if she'd appreciate a kiss or not if you - who were there and looking at her - can't work it out. I think asking would be your best bet.

All the best. :cool:

jameshealy19

I'm not really a friend of hers, she's more of an acquaintance.
I like her but I never have really built any rapport with her.

A girl must be interest in a guy if she holding hands together and focused on him, there must be some connection

Ickle Magoo

If she you can state a girl must be interested if she's holding hands, why are you asking if it shows interest then?

This is an advice forum, baring in mind we don't know the lady in question nor the minutia of last night, what advice are you looking for?

jameshealy19

Ickle Magoo wrote: »

If she you can state a girl must be interested if she's holding hands, why are you asking if it shows interest then?

Maybe cos I'm a wussbag

jameshealy19

jameshealy19 wrote: »

A girl must be interest in a guy if she holding hands together and focused on him, there must be some connection

Your words, not mine.

Go with your gut. You can never be 100% sure a girl is interested, but if you feel there "must be some connection", then go for it. Worst case scenario she turns you down; worse things happen at sea.

LegacyUser

honestly just ask her,


i hold hands with all of my male friends in a club but it wouldn't mean i like them in that way. So if you want to know if she likes you, you have to just ask.

D

Over the years I've asked out loads of girls, too-many-to-count turned me down but also too-many-to-count said yes. You never regret asking a girl out, but you'll always think about the girl that you never asked out.

Miss Fluff

Unless you're proposing to channel your inner McFly and time travel back to Sunday evening don't you think you're looking for advice a little late on this one?

Sounds like she may possibly have been interested, or may not. The only way you'll know in future is to go in for a kiss and see what happens. That way you'll know for sure.